hanging out with a cousin

Karen, me and daughter Nancy at the Breakers in Newport

Banjo Man once told me he had 40 first cousins.  I found that hard to comprehend.  My side of the family is woefully short of relatives, but a second cousin–on my mother’s side– surfaced in Austin about three years ago and connected with us.  We even ended up having lunch together two years in a row.

Karen–my mother’s grandniece– had never been to Rhode Island and very much wanted to visit, so I picked her up at the airport last Wednesday afternoon and brought her home to our little place in the country. She has always been a city girl, so her first question was, “What kind of wild animals do y’all have here?”

Thursday morning, having survived a quiet night with no wolf attacks, we headed to Newport with daughter Nancy. It wasn’t the most beautiful day–cloudy, cold, rainy–to cross the bridges, but the Vanderbilt’s “The Breakers” awaited.

The ballroom:

We ate lunch at the Brick Alley Pub and shopped the stores lining the cobblestone street behind Memorial Boulevard.  Souvenirs were purchased.  As were cupcakes and coffee.

That evening we were at the Matunuck Oyster Bar with Banjo Man. Followed by family stories and a genealogy lesson. Banjo Man was fascinated with the colorful (to put it mildly), bewildering side of my family, with a cast of characters (bigamists, gamblers, dancers, shrimpers) light years away from his Nebraska roots.

We took her to the train Friday, as she was heading to NYC for a reunion with high school friends from New Orleans.

It’s always fun to play tourist and see this area through the eyes of someone from another part of the country.  Rhode Island has a ton of problems, but if you put those aside and simply enjoy the food and the ocean and the history, well, it’s a good place to visit.

Just ask Karen.

 

 

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sunshine, boats and flounder

This was the view from our table at Champlin’s, in Galilee, on Sunday afternoon.

We decided to take a drive to the fishing village and eat fish ‘n chips while watching the boats come into Salt Pond from the ocean.

Banjo Man took a break from leaf-blowing and I fled my sewing machine to enjoy an afternoon admiring the ocean, the boats and the beauty of New England before the snow arrives.

It was a gorgeous day, a bit chilly, but the November sun was bright and the parking spaces plentiful.

I love Champlin’s fish ‘n chips more than anyone else’, due to their using flounder and not cod. Thin, flaky, with just the right amount of breading, better fish cannot be found, I dare you!

Visiting family love to come here and load up on chowder, clam cakes and fish while watching the boats, the ferry, the seagulls.

Just a little piece of New England.

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veterans day

Johnny, Banjo Man and Mick.
Chu Lai, 1967

Thank you for your service.

 

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two containers of inspiration

In my effort to design a star quilt, I’ve been searching through fabric in my closet.  Here’s one container.  Much of the pieces are leftovers from the Gingko quilt.

I haven’t used solids since, and that was 2015.  I prefer prints, the more colorful and modern the better, but prints have no place in traditional Morning Star quilts.

Here’s the quilt kit I unpacked on Friday. It consists of a page of  detailed and confusing directions and eight star panels of printed interfacing.

I dug out another small container of 15+ year old Kaffe Fassett shot cottons and stripes.  That top piece of blue will be the center star.

It’s always great fun to pull out tons of fabric and see what will work for my latest project. This particular process took two weeks, but I think I have settled on my colors at last.

I have watched three different Youtube videos on how to use the printed interfacing and my 2 1/2″ x 5 1/2″ rectangles.  I’ve even–very cautiously–sewn one row.  I don’t feel confident about sewing down the second row, but I’ll watch another video, drink more coffee and tackle it.

Once I get the method down it should go quickly.

Famous last words?

 

 

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welcome to november

Frost on the pumpkins this morning!

It is 35 degrees and all of a sudden winter is breathing down our necks.  Oh, my goodness.

Are we ready?  Getting there.  Sort of.

Last night Banjo Man defrosted a bag of thickly-sliced turkey breast from last Thanksgiving and announced he was going to make a soup.

I attempted to discourage him and urged him to throw the old turkey away.  It won’t be any good, I said.  It’s old.  Toss it in the garbage and make something else.

Of course he didn’t believe me.  Why listen to someone who has been cooking for fifty-three frickin’ years? 

He filled a 7 quart pan with a turkey-vegetable concoction, along with chicken “Better Than Boullion” seasoning, while I ate a bowl of cereal.  When it was finally ready to eat, he dug in.

Me, pretending to be interested:  How is it?

Him:  It’s great, if you don’t eat the turkey.

Well, there you go.

Lesson:  buy a smaller turkey this year.

 

 

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and it’s halloween!

I couldn’t resist a few funnies this morning. It was 42 when I woke up, a more typical Halloween morning.

I’m going out later to buy candy for my TWO trick-or-treaters. Have I mentioned that I live in the woods???

And then I’ll treat myself to a pumpkin spice latte at Cumberland Farms.

It’s been a birthday week here. Son Will, the Funny Grandson and my brother (a Halloween baby 70 years ago). Happy Birthday, guys!

And here’s a little giggle for my online dating friends…

Be careful tonight!

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monday, monday

How Banjo Man spent his weekend:

How I spent my weekend:

My tv tech problems continue. Five hours were spent on Sunday trying to figure it out, get help from Verizon, get help from Youtube TV, and not have a nervous breakdown.

The only thing that is happening as a result is getting a new router, compliments of Verizon, though it’s a longshot whether or not it will help.  Youtube TV, a streaming service that I really like, can’t come up with any response to why it won’t recognize where I am and adjust accordingly.  Patriots game, anyone? Local news?  Not here.  Not yet.  And not since Verizon’s “help”.

As far as Youtube TV?  I started out as number 171 in the “chat line”.

While I was waiting, I completely scrapped my first star quilt colors and started over.  There are mounds of fabric everywhere, but that’s okay.  Eventually this quilt will come together.

Daughter Nancy and I took a drive before going out for burgers Friday night.

Narragansett Pier.  And the iconic Towers.

Not much surf, but the surfers were enjoying a beautiful afternoon.  Temps came close to 80 degrees, an odd and appreciated weather blip.

And now it’s raining.  Welcome to November!

Well, almost.

 

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my cave has a kitchen

After my post-summer, post-road-trip crash of the past two weeks, I’m slowly venturing out of my cave.

I baked sugar cookies Monday, and magically two hungry children appeared with their father!  How did they know?

It was a party.

Today–or maybe tomorrow, or Friday?– I will venture out to the library to pick up the new Longmire novel.  I need to buy Halloween candy.  And mail a box of jam.

That might be enough errands for one day.  But hey, I’m slowly getting back to normal and it’s all good.

Yesterday I tried my hand at making flatbread.  Conclusion:  I think it’s going to take more practice.  And a few more recipes.  Do any of you have a good one I could try?

My flatbreads tasted just fine, but the recipe called for cooking them in a frying pan and oil.  Next time I’ll try another way.  Suggestions, anyone?

I also made butternut squash soup, the best thing ever.  Banjo Man has promised a trip to Narragansett for chowder and clam cakes soon, which we will have to manage to do in between doctor visits.  It’s that time of year when we squeeze all of our check ups into the few weeks before Christmas.

What are you cooking this month?

My cookie-loving friend carving her pumpkin.

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the morning star project

This is going to be complicated.

I’m in the mood for “complicated”. I like spending hours staring at, rearranging, and selecting fabric for a new quilt project.  And this is going to take a while.  I don’t even know what colors I’m going to use, but I’m intrigued with the squiggly red-white-black fabric.  The traditional colors of the four directions are red, yellow, black and white, so it would work if I could find the right shade of yellow in my quilt closet today.

I’ve been researching the history of star quilts and what that design meant to Native Americans. Called “Morning Star”, it symbolizes the beginning of a new day or a new life.  They are used in ceremonies and to commemorate important occasions.

To make it simpler, there is a kit that contains 8 diamond panels on preprinted interfacing.  Like paper piecing, only designed for star quilts. I just ordered one on Amazon and learned it would be delivered this evening.  This evening?  I love the convenience, but how on earth does that work?

It’s a mystery.

 

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what’s on your mind, er, head

Banjo Man is using his birthday gift from daughter Nancy.  Don’t you love it?  Campers, hikers and hunters have been using them for years, but for household repairs?  It really helped.  I think we’re very, very late to the headlamp party here, but Banjo Man intends to use this light whenever he needs to see a little better.

Thanks, Nance!

 

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