looks like we made it

Yep, we made it to FIFTY YEARS. 

Happy Anniversary, Banjo Man!

Here we are up at the cabin a couple of weeks ago.  Banjo Man is explaining something to me.  I do not remember a word he said.

That might be classed as a Secret to a Long Marriage:  Don’t remember anything he says.


I’ll have to give that some thought.

Other revelations?  If you are not prepared for constant compromise and if you and your future spouse don’t have a sense of humor, then get a dog instead of getting married.

Just sayin’.

Our fancy anniversary celebration today will consist of a late afternoon campfire on the beach (it rained buckets last night) with a bottle of wine, a make-your-own-flatbread-pizza party with Will and then a college football game or two on the tv.

Have I told you about our new internet?  No more buffering during football games!  It is truly remarkable and makes life worth living on game days.

We have eleven days left here at the lake.  Work on the cabin continues furiously, as does my annual cleaning out of freezers, refrigerators, cabinets, closets, food, etc.  There are chairs and tables and kayaks to store, along with a myriad of other things to do to close up the house for the winter.

But the rain has stopped and blue sky is peeking through the clouds, making life a bit easier.  A campfire will be perfect on this chilly day as we celebrate this particular anniversary.

A perfect night in July.




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it’s that time again

Last Thursday the Elberta peaches arrived at the Peach Man.  I’d checked the Facebook page and knew they’d–finally–be in town.  So I was there at the tent at 8:45, just in case Mike the Peach Man opened early.  And he had.

I wasn’t going to buy a whole box.  But I couldn’t resist when I saw the stacks of boxes.  And then, after I picked out a bag of plums and a bag of sweet corn, I asked for another box of peaches.

There was no way I could walk out of there knowing that it would be another year before I would buy a box of such luscious peaches again.  Two boxes of peaches sat in the back of the Highlander!  An embarrassment of riches.

So far I’ve made two peach cobblers (different recipes) and a peach quick bread.  Today I might summon enough energy to make a pie.  Or at least a galette.  And we’re eating bowls of freshly sliced peaches with homemade ice cream whenever the mood strikes us.

Our Labor Day weekend will be quiet, as so many weekends have been.  But the weather is perfect for long afternoons on the beach, reading on the patio or napping on the dock.  Last night we made our own pizzas using flat breads and the grill.  Tonight I’m going to stuff zucchini’s and tomorrow Banjo Man is planning a Taco Extravaganza.

On Monday the guys will be up at the cabin preparing for the work that will start there on Tuesday.  New roof!  New porch!  A plan to thwart mosquitoes!

Banjo Man’s heart beats faster just thinking about it.  Just like mine does when I see boxes of peaches.



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a late summer sunday

We’d promised ourselves a Sunday morning kayaking jaunt.  It was a bit breezy so we didn’t plan to go far, just around the point to paddle along the shoreline for a while.  It’s a different view of the world from the water.

After all of that paddling, we hung out on the beach for a while and watched the boats in the bay.  I find that endlessly fascinating, by the way.  We have some excellent water skiers around here.

The guys decided they wanted to take a drive.  Up a mountain.  Come on, they said, it will be fun.

I no longer think mountain drives are fun.  It’s a “been there, done there, don’t want to die” thing.  And if you have ever driven across the Skalkaho Pass in western Montana, you would know exactly what I’m talking about.


I strongly urged the men in my life to drive up whatever mountains they wanted while I stayed home and read the latest Peter Bowen book I’d just picked up from the library (curbside pick up only, sigh).

Banjo Man and Will wouldn’t leave without me.  They promised an easy road outside of town, they promised to turn around if the road made me queasy, they promised not to laugh at my terror of high places with no guardrails.

So…off we went.

And it was fun!  The wide road was well-maintained and, because it followed a huge creek, cut between mountains and was not scary at all.  We drove about 13 miles and stopped at an isolated little camping area.

What are you doing in my yard?

Beautiful old cedars.

A peek at Lightning Creek.

And then we headed back down to town and eventually back home to eat dinner on the porch and play a few rounds of Canasta.

We have played a lot of Canasta this summer.  I created a Summer 2020 Canasta Score Book.  There are always snacks.  I mostly lose.

The three of us have been living together almost three months now and we’re perfectly content with our daily routines.  We’re a relaxed little trio this summer as Covid and riots rage elsewhere.  We’ll be forced to abandon the Lake Bubble eventually, but for now?  Peace and cards and pie reign supreme.


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and day four continues…

We left Choteau reluctantly.  We bought sandwiches at a deli across the street from the museum and then headed west.

Gorgeous country.

Banjo Man wants to return and see Egg Mountain, where dinosaur eggs have been found. He wants to return to Choteau and spend more time in the museum. He wants to spend the night in Fort Benton and go to all of the museums again. He wants to eat in the Grand Union hotel’s dining room.

I want to go to the Log Cabin Cafe and eat pie.


Doesn’t he look like he is modeling Montana Travel Wear?

Our next stop: St. Ignatius and points north. We found the incredible Ninepipes Museum in Charlo, but they closed two hours earlier than we thought, so we had to rush through it.

It was so incredible we know we have to go back when there is lots more time to absorb everything. Their gift shop was huge, but once again I couldn’t shop while wearing a mask even though there were earrings that called out to me.

I bought a greeting card. When I got it home I realized it was not a plain note card with Indian women sitting on a hill but instead was a sister-to-sister happy birthday card.


We also went to the oldest Trading Post in Montana. See for yourself:

We stopped at one more gift shop before returning to Highway 200 and–ta da!–I bought a pair of warm “I Love Montana” socks.

Then we headed west, towards home. Two and a half hours later we were back at the lake. It had been such a great trip, with more wonderful things to see than we had thought possible.

We packed a lot into four days!

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choteau, st. ignatius and home

I am really enjoying this book.

Just a note: WordPress has changed its format and I have no idea what I’m doing or how to resize the photos or write text, etc. Very confusing, even after one large mug of coffee. So I am going to try again tomorrow, as I have lots of pictures of our time in St. Ignatius and our beautiful drive through the Front Range of Montana. See you tomorrow, when I hope to be a lot smarter!

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choteau, day four


Let’s talk about dinosaurs.  Two Medicine Dinosaur Center is on the “Dinosaur  Trail”, a statewide trail of dinosaur museums and parks in eastern and central Montana.

This particular museum was in Bynum, about fifteen miles north of Choteau.   It offers people–especially families–a chance to go out on a “dig” for a day or even five days.  It houses a model of the largest dinosaur ever found, the seismosaurus.  You can see the world’ first baby dinosaurs, found in the area.  There’s a tyrannosaur skull.  And these…


Gizzard stones, also known as “gastroliths”.

How do you know a stone is actually a gizzard stone?  You find it in the stomach area of a dinosaur skeleton!  Otherwise?  Probably just a stone.

I touched a dinosaur bone.  Kids would love that!

We went shopping next door.


This was a highlight for the guys.  My inability to shop and make decisions while wearing a mask continued.  I saved a lot of money on this trip.

Then it was back to Choteau, to their “Old Trail Museum”.  The outer buildings were closed due to Covid, but the museum itself was fabulous.  Will was excited to see the Roman coin, inexplicably found in an ancient tipi ring near the town.  And then there was the skeleton of a French fur trader, complete with embedded arrowheads.

I enjoyed reading about a local woman who, in the 30’s, started a guest ranch with her new husband.  After she died a friend found boxes of journals and stories in her closet, which have now been published.  Of course I bought the book!

This will have to be continued tomorrow as I’ve been interrupted about 17 times and it’s really hot and I turned on the AC, which rarely happens, and I had to go to the library and to the Pantry to buy parsley and now I need a nap and/or a swim….




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more fort benton, day three

After putting 6000 steps on my Fitbit, I sat on a bench along the Missouri and had a nourishing snack.


Fort Benton’s scenic downtown:


Inside the sheriff’s office at the Homestead Village.  The two jail cells were very, very creepy.


The Missouri, which meanders across the street from the town’s main street.


We hated to leave, we really did.  But there were no available rooms at the Grand Union and we had reservations in Choteau.  Miles to go before we sleep, in other words.

Two long hours later we arrived in Choteau around 8 PM and checked into the Stage Stop Inn (it was wonderful).  The lady behind the desk recommended the Log Cabin Cafe for dinner.


He loved the Southwestern salad.

Will had an open-faced chili burger.  I was too tired to eat anything but a small piece of chicken and a mound of mashed potatoes.  I wish I lived next door to the Log Cabin Cafe and could eat there every day.  There was pie, but we were too full.  Banjo Man could not stop talking about Fort Benton and everything he’d seen.  Will was equally amazed

The waitress did not wear a mask–no one did–and it was so lovely to see someone smile!  We talked about it for a couple of days.  What a wonderful change from masks!

And then it was back to the Stage Stop Inn and to bed.  We needed to be up and out early to head north to learn about dinosaurs…



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north to fort benton, day three

Another glorious Montana morning and we were heading to Fort Benton, a historic town on the Missouri River.

We had no idea how much history was in store.


The backside of the Arvon Hotel.  Love the stone!

As we packed our stuff into the car and prepared to leave the hotel, Banjo Man began to make noises about wanting to see the Great Falls–the water, not the city.  He’d been reading a brochure about all of the falls along the river.  Somehow there must be a road, he said.

I couldn’t find one on the map.  There was a walking trail, though.  Not that we were going to use it.

Him:  There must be a road.

Me:  Nope.  Can’t find anything.

Him:  There must be a road.

Me:  Here.  *You* look at the map.

Him, studying the map and then folding it in disgust:  I can’t believe there isn’t a road.

We headed out of town, toward Fort Benton and a handful of museums featuring history of the Old West and steamboats and gold miners.

And then, several miles later…a “Historic Point”appeared on the side of the highway.  A Historic Point about the Great Falls.

Oh, was Banjo Man happy he had pulled over to read it!  The Falls, it said, were “five miles east of here”.   There was an arrow pointing to a large, empty expanse of ranch land.  A LARGE EMPTY EXPANSE OF RANCH LAND.

“Let’s do it,” my husband crowed, heading down a gravel road into nothingness.

“Let’s not,” I whimpered.  I am not so fond of unpaved rides into the unknown.

“Oh, come on,” he said.  “When am I ever going to see the Great Falls again?”

“I don’t care.  We’re going to end up in someone’s ranch and get lost.”

He ignored me.  Will wisely kept quiet.  We drove through miles and miles and miles of back country and then finally there was a sign to the Falls and the road narrowed, twisted, went down a hill.  There was a turn that had a mirror so you could see if you were going to smash into an oncoming car.


What is this?  Grain storage?

But we arrived at the dam eventually and I was more than happy to get out of the car and stop holding my breath.


The Great Falls dam.

There was a footbridge–the kind that sways in the wind–leading to an island in the river, so off we went in search of a Great Falls Photo Op.  The signs prohibited more than six people on the bridge at a time and advised waiting your turn if others were coming the other way and please, do not–under any circumstances– make the bridge sway.


We did not sway.

The island was a beautiful picnic area, but there was this:


As my friend Kathy said when she saw this photo, “I wouldn’t wait to hear eight blasts.  I’d be gone at one!”

Ah, so true.

But there would be a stampede on the footbridge as the dam burst.

There are always signs to read.  But thank God nothing about snakes this time.


Much too windy to wear hats.


Another view of the Missouri.


After all that excitement we once again headed north to Fort Benton, known as “The Birthplace of Montana” on the Upper Missouri.  We expected to view the Missouri, gaze at the first bridge over that river, visit a few small museums and be on our way to Choteau sometime after lunch.

We were wrong.

First of all, there was the Grand Union Hotel–Montana’s oldest running hotel–to see.  Although they didn’t serve lunch, the staff let us roam around the dining room, which was exactly the same as it was when the hotel was built.


Check it out at:  grandunionhotel.com

When I was planning this trip I thought about staying there one night, but I didn’t think there would be enough to do in Fort Benton to justify staying overnight.  Later on in the day I tried to get rooms for that night, but they were sold out.  The three of us wished we could stay in town longer and eat in the hotel’s dining room while pretending it was 1882.


From the website:

Montana’s Heritage Complex 
World Class Museums and Research Facilities

Located in Fort Benton “The Birthplace of Montana”™  the Heritage Complex is the home of Old Fort Benton, The Museum of the Upper Missouri, The State of Montana’s Museum of the Northern Great Plains, Homestead Village, The Hornaday Smithsonian Buffalo Gallery, The Upper Missouri River Breaks Interpretive Center, The Overholser Research Center, The Schwinden Library, and The Montana Agricultural Center.

Let me just say that Banjo Man would still be in the Montana Agricultural Center if we hadn’t hauled him out of there.  It was massive, with exhibit after exhibit of farming and life on the range.  The “Homestead Village” was so much fun, with many, many buildings that showed what life was like back then.

The Hornaday Buffalo Gallery had originally been in the Smithsonian for 40 years.


Always a sad sight, a reminder of senseless and evil destruction.

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Masks were definitely required in all of the museums, but the Fort Benton people were a more cheerful and friendlier group than those we met in Great Falls.  They were genuinely pleased that we were interested in their history, as they are very proud of it.

A sign from one of the museums at Old Fort Benton:

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Fort Benton To Be Continued (because I have so many pictures)…


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great falls, day 2


Look who greeted us at the Lewis & Clark Interpretive Center!

Alas, the Center–overlooking the Missouri River– was basically closed.  The lobby was open and decorated with several exhibits.  There was no charge to enter.

Covid strikes again.



The guys read every sign.

The gift shop opened and I bought a greeting card.

And then it was back in the car, back to the city and to the Charles Russell Museum and Art Gallery.  Will said he was afraid the museum would be partially closed.  Because this was to be the highlight of the trip for him, this would not be good.

But to his relief it was open.  A few galleries were closed due to preparations for a fundraising auction, but the Russell gallery was available.

We paid the reduced fees, donned our masks before entering the building, used the hand sanitizer in the lobby, signed our names and where we were from in the log book.  Montana’s health department was requiring contact information, which varied from zip codes to phone numbers to town of origin to no-one-cares.

I hadn’t been there since 1982 and I barely remembered it, having had three kids ages 2, 4 and 7 with me at the time.

Wearing a mask is miserable.  And hot.  I kept going outside to breathe fresh air.  The Russell home was open for touring and I almost fainted at the top of the stairs (there were others touring the second floor so I had to keep my mask on).  The two-room studio next door to the house was empty except for Will and me, so we lowered our masks and enjoyed prowling around.


That was my favorite part of the museum.  No masks, no people, and plenty of time to look at everything.

The enormous gift shop had many lovely things, but I couldn’t breathe so I bought a greeting card and fled outside once again.

Eventually it was time to find lunch.  As you know, finding a place to eat is no longer easy.  Our first stop, recommended by a member of the museum staff, was crowded and had no outside tables.  So we left there and got lost driving around Great Falls and eventually found Cafe Rio, a Mexican chain with plenty of seating and fresh tortillas.

And then?

The Buffalo Jump.


Wearing my hat and my mask.

We drove out of town to Ulm and the State Park protecting the cliff where the Indians tricked the buffalo into leaping off a cliff to their deaths.  This of course resulted in food for the winter and, because this was before the arrival of the horse, was pretty efficient.

We chose not to hike the mile and a half up to the cliffs.  One reason?


Will is having a great day.

So we drove to the top.  There were rattlesnake signs up there, too.


Let’s zoom closer.


Big Sky Country.

Then it was back to Great Falls and our hotel.  And guess what!  There was a quilt store one block away.  Banjo Man and I walked over to check it out.  I planned to support a local fabric store (they struggle, with or without Covid), but the staff was rude and the fabric less than interesting.  Before we went in,  Banjo Man realized he’d forgotten his mask and returned to the hotel.  He returned to walk me home (!!!) and was surprised I hadn’t bought anything.

I’ve never experienced a rude quilt store salesperson before.  It was very strange.  But Great Falls had a very stressed vibe.  Everywhere we went people looked unhappy and scared.

Will and I returned to a patio table at the hotel’s restaurant for dinner (Banjo Man was still full from lunch so he went to bed early).  The rain started to come down as our meals were served so the waitress offered to move us inside, but we said we were fine where we were.  Mask-free and in the fresh air, we enjoyed our meal under a large umbrella despite the rain and thunder.

The plan the next day?  Load the car by 9:30 and head north to Fort Benton.

To be continued…again…






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getting out of town

We miss our road trips.  So last Wednesday we hit the road east for a four-day mini-Western history adventure in Montana.  We hit the road around 10.  I’d collected info on local museums, the Charles Russell museum and gallery, and even a dinosaur center.  I informed the guys that the trip was designed to be relaxing, with plenty of free time built in for the occasional spontaneous activity.  I brought a deck of cards just in case we had time to kill in the evenings.  There were snacks in the cooler and a large map of Montana folded up between the car seats.


First stop:  St. Regis.  There’s a massive gift shop complex there and we’d heard good things about the huckleberry shakes.


Guess who was happy he ordered a shake.

Masks are required in most counties in Montana.

We left I-90 near Garrison, crossed the Continental Divide on Highway 12.  We stopped to detour to a “vista”, via an uphill dirt track filled with holes and rocks.  I was not impressed.  Here is Will after we finally arrived at the top.



After the “vista” it seemed to take a long time to get to Great Falls even though I was behind the wheel and refused to stop at any more scenic viewpoints no matter who begged.

Our hotel, a remodeled historic building, was downtown.  We loved it.  Next to the Hotel Arvon was their restaurant, The Celtic Cowboy, which had a small sidewalk patio and four tables.  So we had real food!  And we ate safely outdoors without having to venture inside the restaurant while wearing our masks.

I was too hungry to take pictures.

Our rooms were beautiful and there was even an elevator.  The works of local artists covered the hallways.  I found more touristy brochures in the lobby.  The showers were enormous, the beds comfy and we all went to bed early after deciding to fit in a visit to the Lewis and Clark Interpretive Center at 9 AM the next day before heading to the Charles Russell museum, which was actually the focal point of our trip.

To be continued…





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