a welcome home


Daughter Nancy awaited our return on Wednesday afternoon. The house–freshly cleaned and decorated–was ready for us.

Such a good feeling to walk into our home after six months away!

Today I am leaving all the piles of clothes, etc. behind and heading to town for a much-needed hair cut.  I’m also going to stop by Clarks Farm and take a little stroll amongst all the different kinds of pumpkins that will be on display.  I love watching the little kids pick out their favorites.

Then I will pick up some Chinese food to bring home for dinner, as Nancy will be joining us.  I intend to decorate the dining table with pumpkins and open a bottle of wine.

Bring on the dumplings!

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last day, 434 miles

We did it!

Started out at 6:45, just before sunrise. We decided we wanted to sleep in our own bed tonight, so we were up and out early after a quick breakfast.

It feels so good to be off the road! We were gone for exactly six months. It went by so quickly.

Now we’re ready to settle in for the winter, stock the pantry and freezer, plan our projects. I have already signed up for online violin lessons and there is a very complicated quilt I would like to tackle starting after Christmas.

But first…I will unpack, do laundry and start decorating with pumpkins.

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almost home for the winter

We arrived in Clearfield, PA tonight at 5 PM. Which is pretty darn good considering our late start of 9 AM. Banjo Man wanted to stop at Yoder’s General Store and look at warm clothes and farm implements and barn quilts before we left Shipshwana.

On the edge of the parking lot:

Life on the road consists of passing semi’s or being passed by them. Hour after hour.

It’s constant. And not nearly as relaxing as driving through Montana and Wyoming when there is nothing to do but admire the mountains, count antelope and check out the cattle grazing on the hills.

By the way, Indiana is very green. Trees, grass, fields…all green. With highly manicured lawns. We took some back roads this morning to see them close up.

Tomorrow we plan to leave early, at sunrise, and get home before 5. The weather should be beautiful and we’re anxious to get off the road once and for all.

It’s time, don’t you think?

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please pass the pie

Custard pie, actually.

We ended a busy day with dinner at the Amish- run Blue Gate Restaurant’s buffet.

Morning began with an 8:00 start and 145 miles to drive to Shipshewana, Indiana. Those 145 miles were filled with traffic and semi-trucks. We were driving past Chicago after all.

We enjoyed strolling around town this visit (last year it was pouring rain) and shopping a bit.

I want to proclaim that I didn’t buy any vintage tablecloths.

I liked the one with the pears. We’ve been munching on Dancing Mandolin Player’s dried pears for many miles.

I did go to a fabric store. I think there are five here, but I resisted all but this one.

Doesn’t he look thrilled? He was actually quite pleased with himself for having had a bowl of homemade chili and having found an antique store that had a bag of corn husking gloves for sale at a bargain price of $14.00.

This was quite a bit less than what I spent on fabric, so I didn’t even roll my eyes.

We are staying at the Homestead Inn, quite a gorgeous place. Here’s one part of it.

We are 822 miles from home, but I doubt we will drive 411 miles a day any more.

Traffic, trucks and construction have slowed us down, but we eat trail mix and sing along to John Prime and Willie Nelson as we hurtle east.

Two and a half days to go……..

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illinois, 428 miles beyond council bluffs

I am so tired tonight I can’t remember much about the day.

We were energetic and on the road by 8. There were a lot of trucks. A LOT OF TRUCKS.

We crossed the Mississippi. We ate a quick lunch. I don’t know in what town.

Banjo Man is collecting corn husking gloves. I don’t understand why either. But we stopped for a 15-minute search here:

It was only five minutes off the interstate, which was convenient.

Alas, there were no gloves. And while I thought about Thanksgiving, I didn’t buy these.

What are these??????

The highlight of the day—aside from arriving at tonight’s hotel—was a return stop at the Herbert Hoover library gift shop.

He bought a book. I bought a refrigerator magnet so we could remember this day forever.

Sigh.

We are now in Joliet, Illinois. Tomorrow we will drive a mere 145 miles and spend the rest of the day and night in the Amish town of Shipshewanna, Indiana.

There will be pie.

Good night!

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family day in nebraska

Saturday began at 6 AM in the Best Western hotel in Sidney, Nebraska. I chugged coffee and listened to a couple of truckers exchange opinions on various states they drive through.

One declared, “The only place worse than Nebraska is South Dakota, by the Badlands.”

I thought that was a little harsh. The breakfast looked horrendous so I took coffee and a banana back to the room and Banjo Man fixed some instant oatmeal.

We won’t stay there again.

We were on the road by 7:20 and pulled into Nancy and Ned’s driveway in North Platte exactly two hours later. It was to be a “coffee and chat” stop, but Nancy had prepared brunch.

I’m a bit embarrassed to say we gobbled it up. Their lakefront home is worthy of a magazine spread and so comfy. It was hard to leave. I should have taken pictures.

And then we were off to Omaha, which would be a 280 mile drive. I didn’t even flinch when we passed the exit to Grand Island, home of my favorite quilt store, which gives you some insight into how much fabric I already own.

We used the GPS to make our way into downtown Omaha. Yes, it was stressful. We are not used to lanes of traffic and a gazillion exits. Had a glitch with the parking meter (scan the QR code? download the app??), but we found the underground parking garage. Hurry for us, the hicks from Idaho!!

Marge and Ken awaited with open arms and all was right with the world. Niece Jenna popped in, as did nephew Graham. So good to see everyone. Very special!

Then it was time to make our way–in the dark, God help us– to our hotel in Council Bluffs, Iowa five miles east. The GPS chose to quit, pronouncing it couldn’t find a satellite. The cell phone wanted me to download an app for directions while Banjo Man was panicking and whimpering, “Is this the exit??”

Then…”IS THIS THE EXIT????”

We made it just fine. Except when unpacking the car I realized I had forgotten to give out my gifts of apricot jam.

When I checked in, the receptionist informed me that breakfast would be from 7-10, but there was a wedding and a baseball team staying here and that the breakfast room would be “very, very busy”.

While I am content with a mug of coffee and a protein bar in the car, Banjo Man likes his free oatmeal, fruit, yogurt and juice. And maybe eggs, with an English muffin, too. He might be competing with a baseball team or hungover wedding guests.

Tomorrow should be interesting. I think we need to slow it down. Right now it’s an hour and a half past our bedtime and I intend to sleep past 6. Or 7.

We have no idea how far we will go, but the “early start” mode of the past three days is not happening!

Good night!

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tasty treats

We were on the road at 7:30 Friday morning. Wyoming beckoned!

Around noon we were close to Wheatland when Banjo Man announced he was hungry. And not only was he hungry, he wanted to eat in a local cafe. Or a diner. He insisted I take the next exit and drive into Wheatland.

I protested. I am not adventurous about food. I’ve had plenty of awful meals in small towns. And this town did not look promising.

“My diner indicator is green,” Banjo Man pronounced.

“And my diner indicator thinks your diner indicator is full of sh**.”

But he was not to be deterred, even after a very unpromising drive down the main street. He told me to park in front of a hair salon and went inside to ask for a lunch recommendation.

Which is how we ended up at Tasty Treats. They specialized in burgers. It was a simple little place, busy and clean. My husband’s diner indicator was satisfied.

Our day ended in Sidney, Nebraska, about 450 miles from where we began. At Pizza Hut.

We are trying to watch the game, but the channel keeps disappearing. poor Banjo Man. He has waited all day for this and now he can’t see it..

Tomorrow…Omaha!

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i think it’s friday

I’m chugging my morning coffee in Sheridan, Wyoming this morning. It is 6:45 AM.

Yesterday while we were on the road looking at this…

…the Retainer Rescue Mission was taking place as two intrepid Montana men and a trusty cell phone flashlight located my missing piece of plastic and wire. It was under the nightstand, very close to the bed.

Kathy from Montana (aka “kb”) kept me posted on the plan and then, hours later, the mission’s success. My French Friend Janou stood by as a back up if needed.

The texts offering help just made my day.

Kathy is going to mail the retainer to Rhode Island for me. I am beyond grateful to everyone who helped!

I’ve been pathetic. I admit it.

We also left behind our bottle of Tylenol and the road atlas. Much easier to replace!

We stopped in Livingston, MT for lunch, hoping to have quick bowls of soup, but alas, there was no soup. So we split a chicken sandwich and hustled back on the road.

Pumpkins!

474 miles to Sheridan from Missoula and we did it before 5 PM. We traded off driving every two hours. After Missoula, I took over at Butte, as Banjo Man announced he couldn’t possibly close his eyes when he could enjoy looking at Montana. Thirty seconds later he was sound asleep…

Those previously scary, snowy, blizzard mountain passes were just pleasant hills and curves this time.

And then, at 5:00…

The Wyoming Rib & Chop House was calling our names.

The goal today? Be in our hotel for the Nebraska football game tonight!

We hope to actually be in Nebraska tonight. Go Big Red!

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breakfast in missoula

Yes, we made it this far.

Believe when I say it wasn’t easy. There is so much to do to leave the house ready for the winter and, despite giving it our all on Tuesday, we still didn’t leave the lake until 1:00 Wednesday afternoon.

Banjo Man managed to drive for an hour before needing a nap, so I bought coffee in Plains and took the wheel.

He slept for almost two hours.

The highlight of the day was having dinner with old friends Gary and Judy, who baked chicken pies for us. So much fun to visit with them, as always.

Once at our hotel, things went downhill in a hurry. I am never at my best when deliriously tired, so when our room’s thermostat was stuck on 67 degrees and blowing frigid air, I begged Banjo Man to go down to the front desk for help. He returned with a helpful maintenance man who unlocked secret closets and adjusted the temperature so we could have heat.

Once cozy and warm in bed, I reached for the little plastic box that holds my retainer only to discover it was EMPTY.

I’ve worn that retainer since 1991, after wearing braces at the age of 39. I have carefully packed it over thousands upon thousands of miles of road trips, writers’ conferences, and eleven trips to Great Britain and Europe.

So…where is it now? I’m stymied. Somehow it never made it to its container and fell on the floor in my rush to hop out of bed and get busy with my list of chores? Maybe it is under my nightstand or under my bed. The little blue plastic case never left my bedroom until I put it in the Zip lock bag that holds essentials like my toothbrush and lip gloss and moisturizer. Could the retainer have fallen off the bathroom counter and is now wedged between it and the tub?

I wish I knew, even though it doesn’t matter now.

I am aware that I am whining.

I will rally any day now. I will find an orthodontist who will create a replacement, no matter how long it takes. I will even eventually forgive myself for being too distracted, too busy, in too much of a hurry to pay attention to personal details.

We have been so busy.

So…change of subject….we are looking forward to a beautiful drive across Montana today. We don’t know where we will stop or how many miles we will travel. But we do now that the scenery will be gorgeous!

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it’s that time of year

Do you know what I love about October road trips?

I love my afternoon caffeine fix when it’s flavored “pumpkin pie.” The gas stations and truck stops will have versions of pumpkin cappuccino available as needed.

And come mid-afternoon I definitely need help to get me through the rest of the day as we speed towards yet another hotel.

Cheers!

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