the thanksgiving flood

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Friday morning surprise.

At 3:30 AM, the day after Thanksgiving, we took our Texas family to the airport.  It wasn’t part of the vacation plan, but the Funny Grandson’s mysterious stomach issues had occurred again and it was important that he get home to see his doctor asap.

Exhausted and worried, Banjo Man and I were back in bed before 5.  When I woke at 9:30 and staggered out to the kitchen to join Banjo Man and Will for coffee, it was to discover water had flooded underneath the Pergo laminate flooring more than two feet from the sink.   Banjo Man was collecting bath towels.

We thought our plumbing was fixed, but it wasn’t.  There is a little flaw…which means that when there is too much water going down the drain at once, the pipes can’t handle it and it overflows.  I keep a dishpan under that pipe connection just in case, but it has stayed dry since last winter.

And I forgot all about it.

And we had done a lot of dishes on Thursday, both by hand and by dishwasher.  A lot of water went down–or didn’t go down–that drain.  The dish pan was overflowing.

It looked bad, but I have to tell you that it didn’t seem like that big a deal at the time.  I was experiencing Major Grandmother Stress as I worried about FG’s health.  A minor kitchen flood was barely a blip on my radar.

I reminded Banjo Man that years ago we’d had a leak in the air conditioner in my office, resulting in a warped area of Pergo about 12″ x 18″.  It took a year or so, but the boards flattened by themselves and now you would never know.

We’ve been clinging to that hope, but it doesn’t look good.  The boards are warping in a 3 by 8 foot area.  We’ve piled all sorts of weights on them.

We used a portable heater to dry the area.

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This was my idea.

Now we are using anything we can think of to apply weight to the warping boards in the hope that they will settle back into place.

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This was Banjo Man’s idea.  It’s the very, very heavy top of my old white desk.

It gives me an excuse to stay out of the kitchen, so it’s not all bad.

But I think it’s time to call our homeowner’s insurance to see if they cover things like this.

Suggestions, anyone?

 

 

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up periscope

Nothing says Thanksgiving like a submarine.

Especially when the best doughnut shop in Rhode Island is closed on Mondays.

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On the Monday before Thanksgiving, we’d intended to take a little field trip to Allie’s Donuts, but Aunt Nancy texted that they were closed on Mondays.

Plan B:  a drive to Groton, CT to the submarine base and museum.  With a stop at Dunkin Donuts along the way.

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This is called the “Dear Santa” special.  I think it looks like a bow on a gift.  Others think it’s supposed to symbolize Rudolph.

This trip to Groton turned out to be a surprising hit.

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Before we even went inside.

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Working the controls.

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Testing the periscopes.

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View of the Thames River, in Groton.

And the highlight?  Going down inside an actual submarine, the “Nautilus”, the first nuclear powered sub and the first one to travel under the North Pole.

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Back in the gift shop, the FG was the proud owner of a new t-shirt and matching hat.  He would wear them for the rest of the week.

And the day wasn’t over.  We drove through Mystic, Ct for a photo op at the restaurant of movie fame, Mystic Pizza, then on to lunch at Mystick Village and a little shopping.  Then it was back in the car for a drive through historic Stonington Borough (a narrow strip of land that was home to Connecticut’s whaling captains).

It was time to go home and put the casserole in the oven.  Another evening with four generations around the dinner table!

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catching up post thanksgiving

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The Funny Grandson’s great-grandmother gave him an early Christmas present when he arrived in RI and visited her at her assisted living apartment.  Don’t they look happy to be together?

We thought he’d want to dive right into that Lego set, but instead he opted to take it home unopened and save it.  Go figure.

(Yes, I made that quilt above the bed.  It’s a technique called “Stack ‘n Whack” which involves stacking matching sections of fabric and precision cutting.  I love precision cutting!)

After this photo was taken, we bundled my mother into the car and took her back to our house for Sunday dinner.  On the menu was Shepherd’s Pie, the FG’s favorite, which thrilled him no end.  He would go on to happily eat the leftovers for the rest of the week while the rest of us gorged on enchiladas, meatballs, ravioli, etc.

There were mounds of dirty snow at the airport when they arrived Saturday night.  That, of course, was a big thrill for a little Texan.  I bought him rubber boots so he could stomp around in what snow was left in our yard.

I’ll post more pictures tomorrow.   Today I take my mother out for lunch and errands and general riding around, so time has run out for blogging.

More tomorrow…

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Checking out the ocean at Stonington Point.

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homecoming

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Well, this was exciting!  Not in the “Jack Ryan” death-defying style of exciting, but an interesting miniseries nonetheless.  We thoroughly enjoyed it.

It was originally a podcast before being turned into an original tv series for Amazon.  The episodes are short, so you can watch quite a few of them (there are ten in total) in one evening.

Julia Roberts plays a therapist helping American soldiers with their PTSD in a mysterious Florida facility.  That’s all I’m going to tell you so I don’t ruin the mystery.

An aside:  it’s amazing how beautiful that woman becomes when she smiles.

 

 

 

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reconnaissance mission

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Table for two, please.

When asked what touristy thing she would like to do during her Thanksgiving week here in New England, my Texan daughter-in-law replied, “I’d like to eat in a real Italian restaurant.”

We have a lot of those here.  It was a matter of refining the request.  Fancy?  Casual?  Red sauce?  Gourmet?

I asked advice of many friends, all of whom said, “Federal Hill”.  Yes, that area of Providence has been the center of Italian dining since it was the home of Italian immigrants in the 1880’s.  It was the hub of the state’s Mafia organization, with shootings and killings galore in the wild days of the  1960’s, ’70’s and 80’s.

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Federal Hill has always been an area for tourists and locals alike to eat some good Italian cooking from casual to fine dining.  In the past years it has become a bit dangerous at night and, aggravatingly, peppered with parking meters.  Banjo Man decided that we would drive up there and see for ourselves.  We would take the family to lunch next week IF the traffic wasn’t bad, IF we could find a place to park, IF it didn’t feel dangerous and IF we could find the perfect Italian restaurant.

I researched everything, of course.  And I settled on a restaurant called Andino’s.  It has a colorful Mafia history and great reviews on Tripadvisor.

The traffic was fine.  We didn’t get lost.  We even found a “free” parking space on a side street.  It felt like a long walk up Atwells Avenue, but that was only because it was the first cold and windy day of the season and we weren’t ready for winter yet, even though I’d worn a new sweater and a new coat.

Andino’s was crowded, so we sat at the bar and drank wine until our table was ready.  It was a lovely place, with linen tablecloths, flowers and lots of pleasant people working there.  Frank Sinatra songs serenaded us.

In other words, it would be perfect for our family lunch next week.

I had butternut squash and ricotta ravioli in a maple cream sauce for an appetizer.

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Banjo Man had chicken escarole soup.  For my main course I chose eggplant parmigiana.

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Does he look happy?

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Clams in linguine with red sauce.

We were quite proud of ourselves for spending a Tuesday afternoon is such sophisticated surroundings.  We’d gotten out of the country and were in the big city for the first time in many years.

Our afternoon didn’t end there.  We stopped at Sciola’s bakery (everything baked in a 1920’s brick oven) for bread and pastry and at Venda Ravioli to admire the enormous array of cheeses and meats and olive oils.  We saved the wine shop for next week’s visit.

Sciola’s bakery window:

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I think my little Texas family will like it here.

 

 

 

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it’s all about the tables

I’ve spent the last two days auditioning tablecloths.

I know, you’re really glad you’re not here to watch the process.  Kinda like watching paint dry, I’ll bet.  But I take it seriously.

We have two dining tables–one in the dining area and one in the living room–for Thanksgiving dinner.  Yes, it will be a little tight, but no one will care.  The house will smell like turkey, the conversation will joyfully flow, and there will be wine.

Banjo Man set up table #2 so I could measure and plan.  And then he fled to the basement, where he is busy painting a little bookcase.  He was so intent on doing a good job on this project (after a total disaster painting a wire bistro set) that he actually took the vintage bookcase to Home Depot to ask the paint guy what paint he should use.  No fewer than three people stopped him and asked if they could buy the bookcase before he got out of there with his little cans of primer and paint.

Anyway, back to the tables…

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I changed to a different cross stitch cloth, the one made by my grandmother.

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Pumpkins that didn’t make the cut.  Maybe next year!

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This might work.  With the addition of sparkly lights and some artificial leaves.

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Dining room table.  I wanted something blue so I could use my blue-trimmed wedding china.  Blue or white or gray napkins?  What color pumpkins?

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I love this spider web cloth, but it might be a little too colorful.  But I’m going to iron it anyway and decide after I put the turkey in the oven.

So today I will be ironing tablecloths and napkins–something I really love to do.  It’s fun thinking about how pretty everything will look.  Holidays should be special events, if you’re up to it.  I remember my grandmother’s elegant dining room table and how impressed I was by the china and the tablecloth.  I will be using her crystal water glasses next week, too.

It’s a nice memory.

And getting together with friends and family is something to look forward to all year.

Time to plug in the iron…

 

 

 

 

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a banjo man success

On this miserable stormy, rainy day here in Rhode Island, I thought I’d share Banjo Man’s latest recipe.

It was actually delicious.

Sound the trumpets.

We’ve been cleaning out cookbooks, of which I have many, having belonged to the mail-order cookbook club (similar to the Columbia Records club back in the 1970’s).  In my remote little home, a new cookbook was the most wonderful thing to receive in the mail.

But times change, as do appetites and time and energy.  So old, unused-for 20-years cookbooks were donated to the library book sale.  We also found various cooking magazines, which Banjo Man dearly loved to buy.  Before he got rid of them he tore out this recipe from “Eating Well”, November/December 2008.

I will be honest here.  I do not like it when Banjo Man discovers a recipe and wants one of us to make it.  It annoys me in so many ways–and I will not reveal them now (aren’t you glad?).

But on Sunday I was suffering with allergies (to dust!!) after cleaning the basement for two days.  I was clutching a box of tissues and curled up on the couch when my ever energetic husband came upstairs with a new recipe.

Jesus, give me strength.

“I went through all the magazines before I threw them away,” he confessed.  “You don’t have to get up, except to fry the steaks.  I’ll make it myself.”

I liked the “you don’t have to get up” part, because I wasn’t going to anyway.

So off to the kitchen he went.  There was lots of banging and frying and clattering of bowls.

And the results?  It was actually delicious!  Who knew?

BRUSSELS SPROUTS WITH BACON-HORSERADISH CREAM

1 1/2 pounds Brussels sprouts, trimmed and halved
4 strips bacon, cooked crisp and finely chopped
1/4 cup sour cream
2 tsp prepared horseradish
1/4 tsp salt
1/8 tsp black pepper

Steam the sprouts until tender, 6-8 minutes.  Mix bacon, sour cream, horseradish, salt and pepper in a medium bowl.  When the sprouts are cooked, put them in the bowl and toss to coat.  Makes 6 servings, 1 cup each–but we ate a lot more than that.  Next time I’ll double the recipe and figure that’s enough for 4-6 people.  Or great leftovers!

So there you go.  Give Banjo Man credit for his first culinary success!

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veterans day, 2018

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Banjo Man in Vietnam.

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Sarge, looking official.

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Don Winslow of the Navy, my wonderful father.

 

 

 

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after all these years

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Out to lunch at Top of the Bay, at Oakland Beach in Rhode Island.

They’ve known each other for sixty-two years.  Mary (left) is 90.  My mother (right) is 92.  They lived across the street from each other back in the 50’s, in the “Leave It To Beaver” era of family life.

They were stay-at-home moms, had dinner on the table at 5:30 every night and reapplied their lipstick before their husbands were due home from work.  They may have even worn aprons.

They drank coffee and smoked cigarettes and went out dancing on Saturday nights.  Mary and her husband Pasco always won the dance contests and returned with champagne.

Eventually we moved to the country, Mary and her family to California.  They would later return to Rhode Island for many years, until Mary moved to Florida.  Mom and Mary talked on the phone several times a week.  They still do, especially with my mother in an assisted living home and Mary in a senior apartment complex.  They now live 25 miles apart, but it may as well be 200 miles.  So I organized a day out and off we went.

They are, as the saying goes, as “different as night and day”, but those early bonds go deep.

I hope I’m still having lunch with my girlfriends when I’m 90, don’t you?

 

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banjo man’s house

I often refer to the lower level of our home as “Banjo Man’s house”, because his office is downstairs.  As is a bathroom.  And a rapidly-improving kitchenette.  Full-sized fridge (to house all of his health food products), living room, twin beds, gas fireplace, two easy chairs, three enormous bookcases, exercise equipment and a large flat screen tv.

All of that has been upended by the continuing improvements.

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New vinyl floor for the little kitchen.

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Green walls have been painted gray.  The kitchen will be finished in December.

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Bookcases have been cleaned out and organized.

I’ve urged my husband to slow down, to pace himself, to put down the paint brush and put up his feet.

He doesn’t listen to me.

The ugly stairs are going to be covered with beautiful carpet this week.  The guest beds will be reassembled and decorated, thanks to a trip to Home Goods.

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There’s plenty left to do, but although we’re pretty tired we’re really pleased with the way it’s turning out.

Please feel free to come visit!!!!

 

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