it has begun

It took me several days, but I finally woke up.

Totally overestimating my energy level, I assumed I would “hit the ground running” the minute I arrived at the lake, as I’d done in years past.

Uh, no.

Banjo Man and I trudged to town Saturday morning to buy supplies. I’d refused to get back in the car on Friday, so we’d taken that day off to unpack the car and stagger around the house looking at the lake.

It was a two-cart trip to Walmart.

Even with all those groceries waiting for me, I still couldn’t drum up the energy to do anything in the kitchen. I told myself that I needed to recover from a nine-day road trip I still worried that I was suddenly too old to cook, that my family would arrive in June to find frozen pizza and do-it-yourselves burgers.

After several days of semi-consciousness I awoke on Tuesday with a thrilling desire to cook my 27 pounds of ribs (on sale at Super One, hurray!!!). After they were in the oven (275 degrees for 5+ hours) I continued on to make two crockpots of lasagna sauce.

Not done yet, I made a 7-quart pot of turkey vegetable soup.

And then I drove over to My French Friend Janou’s house to finally say hello to her and pick up the packages I’d had delivered to her house in the past two weeks.

Yesterday I went to water aerobics. Heaven! I came home and took a one-and-a-half hour nap, but still…

Today I’m assembling lasagnas. Then Banjo Man and I are going to deal with the tree that is blocking the path to the beach. He is going to saw a chunk out of it, but we’ll save the rest of the job for when the boys arrive. We’ll move a couple of chairs down to the beach and I am lobbying for an afternoon campfire.

Will left it set up before he returned to Texas last August.

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rookie mistake

We should have known better than to attempt this.

This picture was taken Wednesday morning outside of Livingston, Montana.

We had seen snow for two days.



We’d thought it was beautiful, something we’d never seen on our June road trips in the past.

I drove for a couple of hours Wednesday morning and then we stopped on the west side of Livingston for a quick pit stop. When I paid for my coffee the woman at the register wished me a good day (as they do in Montana) and I thanked her and said we were heading to Missoula.

She winced, then said, “Be careful. I’ve been hearing the visibility is bad.”

That should have been my first clue.  I double-checked my two weather apps on the phone and there was nothing happening.  Cloudy, temperature dropping, a chance of rain in Bozeman (which was on the other side of the mountain range we were about to traverse), nothing to worry about.

Banjo Man took the wheel and we stupidly headed west, into the mountains and toward the Bozeman Pass.

It wasn’t long before we realized we were in a snowstorm.  A giant flashing sign told truckers to put on their chains.  We couldn’t have turned around at this point.  Surrounded by slowly moving cars and semi’s, we had no choice but to keep going.

This was before it became bad., just the beginning of the storm.

Soon we were engulfed in white-out conditions.  The only way to know we were still on the steep mountain pass was when–thankfully–a gust of wind blew snow off the road for a few seconds and we could see the pavement and the line marking the lanes.  We cautiously followed the tail lights of the car and truck in front of us and hoped they could see better than we could.

After ten minutes of this, all the vehicles came to a stop.  We assumed there’d been an accident.  We realized we could be stuck on the pass for hours, so we turned off the car to conserve gas and saved the charges on our cell phones.  I knew we would be fine–we had extra jackets and a couple of blankets, along with the space blankets I’d tucked into the glove compartment for emergencies like this–but it was a very uncomfortable situation.

After an hour and fifteen minutes, the traffic began to move.  Eventually it turned into one lane and then we passed several trucks and a couple of cars who had been in some kind of accident, causing the blockage.  Another blockage further along stopped traffic again (we were only going about 10 mph, but eventually we were over the mountain and into Bozeman.

We stopped at the first gas station to fuel up and escape the car.  I asked the young man for a restaurant recommendation, which turned out to be across the parking lot and attached to the Best Western we’d stayed at last fall.  It was time to reconnoiter.

It was snowing.  I checked the weather apps again.   They had no clue there was an issue.

As we waited for our food to be served, we decided we would stay in Bozeman overnight and wait for the weather to clear.  We had two more passes to go over before getting to Butte.  I was in no mood to risk crossing the Continental Divide.  Banjo Man agreed, but was disappointed to be stopping at 2:00 PM.  He even whined about it.  A lot.

After lunch I went to the ladies’ room and ended up having a conversation with two young women there.  One told me there were “cameras” she was checking as she was about to head east, over the very same pass we’d just driven.  I advised her against it.

In the meantime, Banjo Man had talked to our waiter and asked how to get information.  The two women at the hotel reception desk had checked and pronounced the next two passes wet, with possible icy patches, but crossable.

I begged to differ.  I started to sweat.  Since the whole breast cancer experience I do not get myself into any remotely scary situations.  I used up every ounce of courage in my DNA in 2019.  I am now a sniveling coward,  and I am not ashamed to admit it.

My husband, on the other hand, is his usual invincible self.  He wanted to know how many towns were between Bozeman and the next pass.  The snow stopped.  He promised to stop if the bad weather returned.

I was not happy.

The women at the hotel had told me about a Montana website that had hourly camera footage of points along the passes.  I checked the site every fifteen minutes.  They looked clear enough, but a storm could come up suddenly and then what?

Banjo Man kept driving.  We climbed the first pass.  I clutched the door handle and whimpered the whole way.  Son Will called during this climb, which was a good distraction.

We climbed the second pass a little bit later.  By this time I was not speaking to my husband.  Unless it was to give curt directions, I would not speak to him again until later the next day.

My determined husband wanted to drive another two and a half hours to Missoula.  The roads were dry, but that would mean we would have been in the car for twelve hours.  And for what reason?  We had all the time in the world to get to Idaho.  There was no reason to push this hard.

I voiced my opinion as to his sanity, but Banjo Man was undeterred.  Getting to Missoula would mean an early morning start the next day and an arrival at the lake before noon.  I silently took the wheel for an hour and cursed him under my breath.

We crawled into Missoula at 7 PM.   I was asleep before 9.

Lessons learned: check “www.511MT.net” before driving into the mountains.

And don’t give in to Banjo Man ever again if he wants to have a 12-hour travel day.

 

 

 

 

 

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miles: 2992

Yes, we are here at the lake.

Our last morning in Montana as we headed toward the Idaho border.

Thursday at 12:30 we pulled up in front of the house. We were very, very happy to have arrived.

Rick the Gas Technician was waiting for us, as there was in issue lighting the pilots on the gas water heaters. That was solved quickly and we spent some time unloading the car.

And then we had to say hello to the lake.

The path was blocked by one of the trees that went down this winter. We’re so glad it didn’t hit the deck on its way down. The boys are going to have a lot of work to do when they get here.

Here you can see how low the water is now. It is rising slowly and there has been a difference since Thursday.

Pretty amazing!

We have vowed to eat everything in the freezer before I start cooking again. Yesterday we had meatloaf. Today I defrosted a little container of meatballs. Tomorrow is mac & cheese, along with a loaf of banana bread.

We’re unpacking slowly. All the things for the cabin (and there were a lot of them) have been transferred to our “mountain” Highlander for a trip up to the cabin. Snow is going to have to melt a bit more, I’m afraid. Banjo Man doesn’t think he can drive in there yet.

I wouldn’t put it past him to try.

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the remission road trip picks up speed

I learned nothing today. And I’m happy about that because (a) I have overdosed on museums and (b) this meant we drove 424 miles today, stopping only for gas and snacks.

I do so enjoy my 2:30 PM gas station cappuccino.

We are tucked in bed at the Fairfield Inn in Sheridan, Wyoming tonight. On the road since 7, we plan another early start tomorrow.

Check out Wyoming.

Remnants of snow drifts.

I did spend a joyful 30 minutes at the Material Girl fabric store in Grand Island yesterday. Banjo Man chatted with the owners about his Gees Bend Retreat experience and impressed them no end.

And then we visited the nearby Sturh Museum, which Banjo Man said he’d wanted to see his whole life.

Probably highly exaggerated, but he was excited, despite the gaggle of angry, honking, agitated, pooping geese at the entrance to a very beautiful building. Inside were elegant displays of life in early Grand Island and the surrounding county.

Do you know what this is?

I do, because this was one of my first jobs. What was I, you ask? A telephone operator. I worked a switchboard just like this one.

It is now in a museum. I AM OLD.

More things to see:

Pretty incredible.

We ate a real dinner tonight, driving through town to the Wyoming Rib & Chop House. Banjo Man had ribs. I splurged on a tenderloin. It was really, really good. I actually cleaned my plate, which only happens once every Leap Year.

This is our silly selfie at the Sturh museum. We were in front of a windmill, in case you’re wondering. After this was taken, Banjo Man managed to avoid me for the next hour, until it was time to brave the angry geese and flee to the safety of the car.

I think we have about 670 miles to go, with not another museum in sight…….

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and we keep moving’ on

Someone left a sock outside our hotel room door. It was still there the next morning when I returned from the breakfast room, thank goodness, because I had forgotten my room number.

I was relieved to see it. My own Hansel and Gretel moment.

This morning I am sockless in yet another breakfast room at 6 AM. Banjo Man is asleep and I managed to dress in the dark and tiptoe out of the room without waking him. I could find everything but my socks.

Saturday night’s hotel in Coralville, Iowa, would have never had a random sock on the floor. I’m glad we splurged a bit and tried a Springhill Inn & Suites.

Yesterday was an odd day. We woke to 34 degree temps and a whole lot of wind. All of a sudden it was winter with snow forecast in exactly the direction we had planned to drive. So we headed west instead of north, battling snow flurries, rain and gusting winds.

We would have one more chance to turn north to South Dakota and skirt the western edge of the snowstorm in a few hours.

When it was my turn to drive, my husband immediately fell asleep and, after over an hour of rain and wind (like riding a half-tame horse for 100 miles) I made the solo decision to keep heading west into Nebraska and crossed into the state (where the skies were brightening up a bit).

And here is where I apologize to our Nebraskan loved ones and friends for not stopping to say hello. You would have had very short notice and, while I do love company, I need a substantial heads up to get ready.

I assume you do, too. And there are days when people don’t want to be visited? Like Banjo Man’s friend in Detroit.

So we are in Grand Island, Nebraska. This is the home of my favorite quilt store and it opens at nine. I have promised myself to only buy a little bit of fabric and only if I can’t bear to live without it. My friend Pat emailed last night to insist that this “was no time to be frugal” and I should buy anything and everything that caught my fancy.

Banjo Man is getting even by insisting we go to yet another museum this morning before we jump back on the interstate.

He may also have hinted that I have too much fabric, but he was vague enough to keep from getting in trouble. Even if he was right.

We don’t know where we will be tonight, which is a relaxing way to travel. But we are moving surprisingly fast and could be at the lake THURSDAY!!!!!

And we will be ready to pafty!

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another day, another president

Last night we decided to get up this morning and waste no time heading to Iowa.

What is in Iowa, you ask?

Herbert Hoover’s birthplace and Presidential library and museum.

His two-room childhood home:

We learned that Hoover was a genius at organizing enormous projects. An impressive human being any way you look at it.

I was glad to get out of Fremont, Indiana. We had been there years before. I’d spent all night finishing a manuscript that absolutely had to be emailed to an impatient editor by 10 AM.

That is not a good memory.

Last night’s hotel was awful, despite its good reviews. I bought my first cup of coffee at a nearby gas station. And we hit the road.

Tonight we are in a much fancier hotel in Coralville, Iowa. It’s actually gorgeous, a suite with a living room area, giant bathroom and walk in closet. I want to stay here for a week.

But we are heading north tomorrow. Only it is going to snow all day along our original route.

Maybe we will stay here after all. Or find a different route.

Meanwhile look who is basking in the glow of US History:

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first stop: hyde park

Can you tell that Banjo Man is having a good time?

This is not our room at the Marriott. Quien Elizabeth II stayed here in 1953.

Visiting here was great fun, especially since the other tourists were teenagers on a field trip. I happened to be in the War Room when a teacher was explaining those strange black things on the desks. In other words, telephones.

That led to describing phone books.

Very funny!

FDR’s desk:

We are in Fremont, Indiana tonight. Our visit to Detroit was sadly cancelled due to Banjo Man’ s friend being ill, so we continued on I-80 for another couple of hours.

More tomorrow….

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heading to hyde

We made it to Poughkeepsie, New York yesterday. A three hour drive turned into four hours, due to trucks and traffic and more traffic.

I started wondering if we were doing the right thing by driving ourselves to the lake.

But we made it. And ate take out salads in the courtyard of our room. It was 82 degrees!

So this morning we’ll immerse ourselves in US history, followed by an afternoon on the road. We hope to reach Elmira, but that could be optimistic. Banjo Man hates to leave museums of any kind.

Wish us luck!

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packing it all in

I wanted to take a picture of the back of the car, as it is loaded with Banjo Man’s “stuff for the cabin”, but I am under strict orders not to open the back door.

This load of “treasures” is blanketed by an old quilt and, as promised, has not risen above the back window.

I don’t like anything blocking my view when I’m driving three thousand miles across the country.

One of the things in the back is mine:  a pottery platter.  I don’t think it’s taking up too much room, do you?

The back seat is for our overnight, traveling gear.  As usual, I am traveling light.  Banjo Man is not.

We are leaving today (maybe this morning?) and heading West at last.  As I wrote yesterday, we’re not going far.  Just 170 miles (3 hours) to a Presidential library and museum.  I don’t even think we’ll be out of New York until Friday.

Daughter Nancy is moving into the house and all will be well here.  She takes good care of things.

So it’s time to clean up the tiny mess in the kitchen, get dressed, put the last Zip lock bags of toiletries into the overnight bag and make some trail mix.

I think everything else is ready.  Fingers crossed we don’t forget anything!

 

 

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am i an old bag?

A few weeks ago I went to TJMaxx, but I can’t remember why.  Banjo Man thought he might need shorts for our Mississippi trip, so maybe that was the reason.

Near the door I spotted this:

Whoa! The perfect bag for the road trip was hanging right before my eyes.  Soft and light, with additional straps for over-the-shoulder carrying, it looked great.  And nicely plopped into my cart.

It wasn’t until I arrived home and set the bag on my cutting table that I remembered my grandmother had one just like it.

And she was born in 1902.

I realized I’d seen very old ladies carry these same bags on airplanes.  I’d joined the Old Ladies Travel Club without even knowing it. Instinctively, even.

Today I will start packing.  We leave tomorrow, hopefully by noon, but the timing doesn’t really matter.  We’re only traveling 3 hours, into upstate New York, for our first day on the road.

On Thursday morning we’ll explore the Franklin D. Roosevelt Library & Museum before we officially head west toward the mountains.

One more day to go……….

 

 

 

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