consequences

don't create your own storm

I love this.  I read Bonnie Hunter’s quilting blog every morning, usually with my second cup of coffee and half of a protein bar.

She always has a little saying superimposed over a quilt at the end of each post.  And this one was the best yet!

Many of you know we adopted three siblings back in 1990.  They were six, eight and ten at the time.  Products of the welfare system, they arrived with the “victim mentality” firmly entrenched in their little psyches and no matter how hard I tried, I could never get them to relinquish it.

What a struggle.

I wish I’d had this particular sign back in those days.  I would have plastered it all over the house.

I had other sayings, for all six children.  I think one of the ones they hated the most was, “You don’t get something for nothing.”

And, “There are consequences for bad behavior.”

How about this familiar one:  “Because I said so.”

Or, “My job is not to make you happy.  My job is to make you a good, productive member of society.”  (That usually got a blank stare)

Now that I’m a grandmother I don’t have to say anything except defend the little guy and murmur, “He’s only [fill in the age].”

And I get to giggle a lot, too, because I’ve heard my son say, “Because I said so!” more than once.  And I try to keep a straight face.

Not easy.

What was your favorite line?  What got their attention?

 

 

 

 

 

 

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the remnant shop

Last Wednesday my buddy Ruth and I headed to Hope Valley to check out a store my dental hygienist had recommended.  When I was a kid there were “mill outlet” stores everywhere and my mother, who liked to sew her clothes and mine, was no stranger to places stocked with odd remnants of fabric.

The Remnant Shop was that kind of place.  I didn’t know any existed in 2017.

IMG_3389There were several tables of name brand quilting cottons for $4.00 a yard (compared to $11.00 a yard in quilt stores).  One yard minimum cut, unless the owner was in a good mood and would cut a 1/2 yard piece.

IMG_3388At $4.00 a yard I didn’t mind adding to my stash and picking out some pretty fabrics, even though I didn’t know what I was going to make with them.

 

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I’ve already cut up most of this fabric into 5″ squares.

The second floor held books and cd’s, so I bought a new karaoke cd and a book for Ruth, for when she is camping in Vermont this summer.

 

Ruth became a quilter several years ago and is loving it!  Here she is with her almost-finished twin quilt, to be given to her great nephew on Sunday.  Aren’t those airplanes gorgeous?

IMG_3393 (2)Her quilting is pretty gorgeous, too.  She has a knack for it and a great eye for color, too.

IMG_3394I love it when she calls me with a “quilt emergency” question.  It makes me feel like an expert, at least temporarily.  If I don’t have the answer I can give her the website or the youtube video that will!

Between Harley Chick, Aunt Pat and Ruth, I no longer feel like I am quilting alone in the wilderness.  I love fabric shopping with friends!!!

p.s.  My Ebay sales project is going like gangbusters.  I’ve sold over 40 chunks of fabric and still have two weeks to go.  I can’t believe how much time this little business eats up, but every time I haul a bag of items to the Post Office I am closer to owning a new, fancy sewing machine!  Hurray!!!!

 

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happy mother’s day 2017

IMG_3396It’s rainy and cloudy and windy here in Rhode Island today.   Those of us in my family who intended to get together changed our plans.  We exchanged flowers and pretty cards and hugs yesterday afternoon instead.

It’s cold and feels more like March than May.

And it’s nice to stay home.

I have great leftovers!

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Such a treat after so many weeks of a no-carb lifestyle.  I will enjoy every cheesy bite!

So Happy Mother’s Day to my friends reading this blog.  You all deserve a lovely, love-filled day with the people you most care about.

Enjoy.

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an afternoon in provincetown

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It’s the little town at the tip of Cape Cod.  It’s the place where the Mayflower docked before heading into Plymouth in November of 1620.  There the Pilgrims established their new government, a “domestic commonwealth” without kings and queens.

My ancestors were there.  Two great* uncles were on the Mayflower (a younger brother, my direct ancestor, would follow later).

Our first stop was the Lobster Pot for lunch.  I had chowder and fish ‘n chips.  Others enjoyed lobster or crab salads, fried clams and oysters.  It was all so good.

Then we roamed around the narrow shop-lined streets.  I can’t imagine how crowded it is in the summer.  I’ve heard you can barely walk through the crowds of tourists in July.

Here are some of my favorite signs and t-shirts.

And then there were the stores…

And the sights…

And the window of the Portuguese bakery.

IMG_3341Banjo Man posed with ice cream.

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Before we knew it, it was time to head back to Rhode Island.  It would take over three hours, our shortest official road trip in years.  We missed one turn, but it was the only time the GPS let us down and caused confusion.

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Driving across Narragansett Bay.  Thirty minutes from home.

 

*I think it’s great x 12, approximately.

 

 

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scenes from the dunes

IMG_3316Our first stop on Tuesday morning was in the Wellfleet area of the Cape Cod National Seashore.

I’d heard about the dunes, but neither Banjo Man or I had ever been to see them.  So the nine of us headed down the dunes to the beach below.

 

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The mother and father of the groom take a walk.

 

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Looking for whales?

 

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Taking pictures.

 

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Finding treasures.

I found a purple heart rock.

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It made me laugh to myself to think that we had driven three hours to go to the beach and look at the Atlantic Ocean.  Here at home the ocean is about a five minute drive away.  Why don’t Banjo Man and I go down there and admire it?  I vowed to go for beach walks this month, to get down to the ocean and smell the sea and hear the waves.

If it doesn’t rain this afternoon, I think that’s exactly what we’ll do.

 

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an itty bitty road trip

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When your friends from Montana show up in Massachusetts (a son was getting married–happy day!), you absolutely must get in the car and join them in their touristy endeavors.

It’s a law.

So Banjo Man and I packed up the car and headed to the Cape on Monday morning.  Two hours later we were at the family of the groom’s rental house in Hyannis.

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View from the dining area.

See that blue sky?  That’s a rare sight here in New England these days.  We are still waiting for spring.

“The Kathies”, as they are affectionately known to one and all, love to party.

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Nine of us went to Spanky’s, a seafood restaurant next to the dock where the ferries come and go.

I skipped the drinks and went right to the menu.

 

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My giant lobster roll. 

Since we’re talking about food, I’ll show you the lobster-stuffed avocado from Tuesday’s lunch at the Lobster Pot in Provincetown.

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The Kathies always know the best places, even when they are 3000 miles away from their remote mountain homes.

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More pics of Provincetown tomorrow.  Can  you believe it had changed a lot in the last 47 years, when Banjo Man and I spent a day here to celebrate our engagement?

(He remembered I wore a blue dress.  I didn’t.)

Late Tuesday afternoon, stuffed with seafood and clutching bags of pastry from the Portuguese bakery, we made our way back to Rhode Island.  My face hurt from smiling so much.

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Heading home over the Newport bridge.

 

 

 

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finished!

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My part of the basement workroom is encased in plastic and labelled.

Hallelujah!

Selling fabric on Ebay has turned into a profitable little temporary business.

Did I tell you I’m saving for a new sewing machine?  All of the Ebay money goes into that fund, so when my present much-loved machine finally takes its last gasp I will be ready to go to the sewing machine store and get the new Janome 9400.

I have two more pairs of drapes to list this morning and then that part of this huge project is done.  I hope to spend the rest of May shipping out packages of vintage drapes and fabric to new owners.

Banjo Man is now cleaning out his part of the workroom.  I woke up at 5 AM to the sound of raccoons trying to get into the garbage cans outside the bedroom window, but it was actually Banjo Man digging through shelves in the basement.  He’d been up since 4 AM readying the car for a trip to the dump.

He’s so excited.

He has even thrown away twenty-year old tubes of caulk.

Let’s say “Hallelujah” again, shall we?

The best thing about today is not going to the dump, but the tossing out of the old “shop vac”, which doesn’t vacuum and makes a horrendous high-pitched squealing noise while not doing anything but blowing air around.

So today we’re buying a new one.  Well, not “we”, because I’m staying home today while Banjo Man goes to the dump, the grocery stores and Walmart.

It’s raining.  And the fog is incredibly thick.

But the basement?  A work of art!

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a little patio time

Despite the chilly temperatures, Banjo Man has insisted upon ending the work day with a little wine…

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…and a big rock fountain.

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We wear sweatshirts and pretend it’s summer.

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I hope wherever you are the sun is out and the breezes are warm!

And there is wine.

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my ebay life continues

I don’t know how many days I’ve been doing this.  In the midst of the cleaning and unpacking and bin-hauling, I’ve lost track.

Yesterday I went to the Post Office and mailed off my SIX SALES.  How exciting!

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The money is nice, but the best part?  It’s out of my house!!!

This morning I unpacked three bins of fabric that I had marked “KEEP” two years ago.  But today I ruthlessly sorted through it and decided to sell about 70% of it.  Banjo Man is beside himself with joy.

Want to see some of the things I’ve listed on Ebay?

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A Davy Crockett curtain panel.

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Pink poodles and vintage cars!

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Southern plantation 1950’s era barkcloth.

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Farm barkcloth–this sold immediately.

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Still had its tag–priced 27 cents a yard.

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Satin lingerie holder.

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Three of these nubby barkcloth panels sold right away.

And for today?  Well, this bin awaits measuring, pricing and photographing.

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As do these:

And lots of tropical barkcloth drape panels!!

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I am so hoping I finish listing everything today.

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fortitude

Amazon has a new series.

fortitude

Set in a fictional Arctic island settlement, “Fortitude” is a sci-fi thriller with an interesting set of characters, a defrosting mammoth that may or may not contain deadly toxins that turn nice people into murders and lots of people cheating on each other in snow-covered huts.

It’s pretty wild stuff.

I’m not into horror flicks at all.  I don’t like scary stuff.  But this is so darn good and the characters are so wonderful and intriguing.

I started watching it while Banjo Man was away.  I finished episode 10 of Season 1 (with two hours to go to the end) when I had to go out at 1 AM to pick up Banjo Man from the airport.

It was a rainy and foggy and creepy night.  And after 5 hours of Fortitude (I was icing my hip and taking Tylenol and sorting photographs on the couch–after a long weekend of ladders and cleaning, it was so good to sit down!) I will admit that I really didn’t want to venture out into the fog at 1 AM.

By myself.

Yes, FORTITUDE is that creepy.  I even check the interior of the car to make sure there were no toxin-filled psychomaniacs lurking in the dark.

And then I locked the doors.  Really fast.

For 10 hours of FORTITUDE I was so glad Banjo Man wasn’t with me, because he gets scared very, very easily.  And then he swears.  And he doesn’t like it when people don’t wear hats and gloves and zip up their coats when the temperature is -30 .

But…he was dying to see the show, even though I warned him about the creepy parts.

You know what?  He’s hooked!  He’s finished Episode 6 now and he loves it.

Go figure.

The acting is great and the setting is gorgeous.  They filmed it in Iceland, using similar settings as Game of Thrones (and the same local crew).  The scenery is stunning.

Click here to read more about it:

Have you seen this???   Let me know what you think!

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