a two-cart couple

It took over forty years, but Banjo Man and I finally realized that the secret to a successful and stress-free trip to the grocery store was for each of us to have our own shopping cart and go our separate ways until we meet up at the cash register.

The “separate ways” part can get tricky when we’re in a big store like Walmart and Banjo Man has left his cell phone at home.  Sometimes he forgets when and where we are supposed to meet and I end up spending more time next to the barbecued chicken display than I care to.

Here’s what happened Friday at Walmart.

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HIS.

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HERS.

Together it looked like the cart of a vegetarian with OCD.

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i’ve had better ideas

 

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1/3 of what is to be sold (hopefully).

 

On this Saturday afternoon I am questioning my judgement.  My sanity.  My organizational skills.  And my Ebay prices.

Oh, dear.

I’ve been at this “cleaning the basement” thing for over a week now.  There have been good days and bad days.  I have sorted through many, many bins of fabric and curtains and drapes and bedspreads and have photographed each piece at least four different ways.  I have measured fabric and have folded drape panels and have written descriptions on note cards before packing each item into a zip-lock bag.  I have weighed everything, one thing at a time, on my brand new postal scale.

Now I’m at the “listing” stage, which is not exactly zooming along.

 

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Would anyone like peach curtains?

Here are the 10 things that are now on Ebay.  Please pray that someone buys this stuff, okay?

 

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I know someone wants that pink poodle valance with the pompoms!!!

If I ever buy another piece of vintage fabric again, I want you to take me by the hand and lead me to the asylum.  I promise to go willingly.

My daughter caught the Ebay spirit and brought her wedding gown to me to sell this morning.  What a great idea!  It’s always a shame to think of wedding gowns stuffed into boxes when they could be used again–and again–by thrifty brides.

 

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Love those daisies!

 

Banjo Man was very impressed with my progress in clearing off the basement shelves.  Unfortunately the living room and dining area look like a fabric bomb exploded.  There are shipping bags and boxes stacked everywhere.  By tomorrow night I hope everything will be back down in the basement, bins tucked neatly under the folding table I’ll use as my shipping center when hordes of eager fabric-buyers fight to purchase my collection.

Wish me luck.

 

 

 

 

 

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thursdays with mom

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Every Thursday my now-91-year old mother and I hit the road and hit the stores.  It is “her” day to decide where she wants to go and what she wants to shop for.  Sometimes it’s shoes, or slacks, or groceries doughnuts, cookies and coffee cakes.  Yesterday we bought an alarm clock.  Sometimes we head north to the big mall or the hairdresser.  Or north to Kohl’s.  Or south to Walmart.

Let me tell you how much I love the “handicapped” parking spaces.

Yesterday we stayed in town and had a leisurely hour and a half in Marshalls.  She bought two nightgowns, a robe, new slippers, three pairs of pants and a pair of shoes.

I don’t usually buy anything, but yesterday I went crazy and bought three summer tops and a nine-pack of socks.

 

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This woman is a shopper of Olympic quality.

Lunch is either at those trendy gourmet hotspots, Walt’s Roast Beef or Subway.  Now that she is feeling better (I will admit things were a bit grim last November) she can wolf down a 6″ meatball sandwich in ten minutes flat and, cane in hand, is ready to move on to the next thing on her Thursday list.

If and when I’m 91, I hope someone takes me to a fabric store once in a while. 

 

 

 

 

 

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no sew expo? no problem!

If it’s April, it’s Sew Expo in Worcester, Mass.  But not this year.  The annual sewing event, with demos and fashion shows and vendors and quilts, did not come to Worcester this year.

All good things must come to an end, I guess.

But we were not deterred.  By “we” I mean Harley Chick, her Aunt Pat and me.  There was no way we were going to give up on an annual tradition, our April jaunt to see new developments in the sewing world and check out the new fabrics and patterns.

Yesterday–despite the rain–Harley Chick drove us to Grafton, Mass where we picked up Pat and headed for Franklin Mills, a huge fabric store in an old mill building next to the train tracks.

Harley Chick bought a dress pattern for her granddaughter.  I bought material for a table runner for the lake house.  Pat eyed several patterns for bags, but managed to resist.  I also bought unbleached denim to make into a pastry cloth.

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I see this as a table runner.  Do you?

 

And I also picked up a couple of other little pieces I couldn’t resist.

We ate lunch at the Grafton Grill, which was a fabulous new place owned and run by Pat’s neighbors.

april shop hop 2017

 

april shop hop dessert 2017

Peanut butter pie with whipped cream and chocolate chips.

Let’s do it again in October, ladies! 

 

 

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pie porn

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This is a gorgeous book about pie.

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I sadly returned it to the library yesterday, but not before copying some of the recipes for pie crust and fruit pies.

And I bought lard.

As soon as the basement is cleaned, I am going to make a strawberry pie.

The author, Kate McDermott, writes about pie as if she is a dear friend in your kitchen, one who is going to explain “pie” as simply and kindly as your grandmother would.

One Thanksgiving many years ago, I attempted to teach my three daughters how to make pie crust and pumpkin pies.

They tolerated the hands-on instruction, but they did look at me as if I was crazy.  As in, why would I ever want to go to this much trouble when I could buy one at the store?

I’ve never found a store-bought pie to be as good as a homemade pie, except for one time in Austin, when I bought a giant peach pie at Central Market.  I still remember the magnificent crust.

There will be lots of pie at the lake this summer. 

I am ready.  And inspired!

To see this book on Amazon, click here:

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last season of river monsters

 

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photo courtesy of Animal Planet

The ninth and final (sob!) season of River Monsters begins tonight, 9 PM Eastern time.

I am thrilled and sad at the same time.

According to Jeremy Wade, he has checked off all of the “monsters” on his list and there are no more to find.  He’s satisfied with his fishing achievements (which means he’s the only fisherman in the world who is).

I’ve been awake since 4:30 AM.  I had a dream where Banjo Man took my diamond ring and my cell phone and traded them for newer and uglier versions.  He thought I’d be pleased.  Instead I was so angry I punched him in the nose.

And then I woke up.

I’m enjoying the sunrise with a mug of coffee.  After several days of rain, this streaky pink and blue sky is a welcome sight.

My basement cleaning project continues.  As soon as I make more room on these shelves, I’ll start in on my upstairs closets and move some things downstairs.

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There is also my mother’s giant plastic bin (so heavy it can’t be lifted) of old photographs to sort through.

I think I’ll put them in bags and take them upstairs to examine from the couch while I wait for Jeremy’s new fishing season to begin.

In the meantime, I’ll be in the basement sorting through vintage fabrics, books, clothes and an odd assortment of cooking pans.

Word for the day:  ruthless.

 

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and the cleaning begins

IMG_2802In May of 2013 I went through a few bins of my vintage fabric and measured, ironed, folded and labeled them.  They went into large plastic zip-lock bags and, alas, stayed there.

I’ve been busy.

A suitcase-load went to the lake, to be sold at My French Friend Janou’s yard sale.  She is famous for her yard sales, by the way.  It’s amazing how organized she is and how much stuff she can assemble to sell.

But I’m flying to the lake this year (in 49 days!!!) and won’t be bringing fabric to sell.  I have to do it another way.

I considered Etsy, but there is a hassle with state tax and registering as a business here in RI.  To get involved in setting up a business in this state is like sticking one’s toe in an alligator pit of red tape, one that will never let me go.

I then thought about taking fabric to the local consignment store, but I don’t think I’d make much money–even if they would accept vintage drapes, etc.  I’m going to ask this afternoon, when I drop off some casserole dishes and platters.

UPDATE:  The local consignment store is taking “incoming appointments” in September.  The earliest I could bring in my dishes, etc is September 28 at 11 AM.  Obviously that’s not going to work with this weekend’s cleaning schedule.

I’d like my precious vintage fabrics to go to people who would appreciate them, would “ooh” and “ahh” and imagine the lovely things they would make or the windows they would cover.

Which leaves Ebay.  The downside is the time spent listing each piece.  Descriptions, photos, shipping estimates…well, it all takes time.  A lot of time.

So I’m going to list a few things and see how it goes.  See if it’s worth it.

In the meantime, I am donating bags of clothing (my bin of beloved small-sized jeans included!) to Big Brothers & Sisters, because the Salvation Army no longer has a drop off place within 30 miles.  I am being brutal in getting rid of precious outfits that haven’t fit me in ten years.

The pain won’t last.  When I get freaked out, I jump on the treadmill (just feet away from all of the bins of “stuff”) and walk for a mile.  That helps.

Would anyone like an evening bag? 

 

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the easter gumbo that almost wasn’t

I am a proud Maker of Gumbo.  I make four different kinds, depending on the expectations of the people who will be eagerly holding their empty bowls and waiting for dinner.

I am accustomed to praise, awe and gratitude whenever I make gumbo.  This is the honest truth.  (I had one disaster in Texas about seven years ago, due to old spices and a difficult pan, but we all try not to talk about that).

For my mother’s birthday–to be celebrated on Easter Sunday with her nearest and dearest friends–I intended to make a Shrimp-Okra gumbo.  No andouille sausage and no chicken, just a more refined gumbo with shrimp as the star.  The roux would be darker, the vegetables finely minced.

So on Saturday I minced onions, green peppers and celery (Banjo Man was busy with taxes, so I was on my own with a knife and cutting board), enough for a double recipe.  I retrieved my coveted shrimp bouillon cubes for the broth, assembled the spices and made the roux.

The roux, brown and silky, was a triumph.  The vegetables went in–the smell was pure New Orleans Restaurant–and it all went together beautifully.  I defrosted and sautéed two packages of cut okra, added them to the mix and let it simmer (the shrimp would be added shortly before serving it the next day).

I tasted it, but the flavor wasn’t good enough.  So I added more salt and thyme, cooked it a little more, then refrigerated the gumbo in its giant pot overnight, hoping that another 12 hours would let the flavors meld.

No such luck.  I heated it Sunday morning.  Something was off.  Was my oregano old?  Or was it the cayenne pepper?  In my haste to solve the problem, I burned it.  Yep, the bottom of the pan was a burned layer of okra and vegetables.  So I got another giant pan and poured the rest of the gumbo (which didn’t taste burned) into it, scrubbed the black layer from the pot before Banjo Man could venture upstairs and ask questions (I didn’t need questions!) and texted my daughter.

Yes, she said, she would buy two more bags of frozen okra for me on her way to the house.  I asked if she would get three bouquets of peach or rose tulips, too?  My centerpiece is too big for the table.  Yes, she said, no problem.

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Too big for the table!  I know you’ve seen this tablecloth before–I have 3 of them–but they are so cheerful I can’t resist.

Back to the gumbo…

I would have to make another batch, and fast.  So luckily I had a bag of frozen–don’t tell anyone–chopped green peppers and a bag of frozen chopped (not finely minced, but what the hell) celery, peppers and onions.  So I made another lovely–if I do say so myself–roux (hot oil + flour and cooked over high heat, stirring constantly, until it is dark chestnut brown), added the frozen vegetables (thank you, Walmart frozen food section), more shrimp bouillon broth (heated separately) and the spices.

NancyK arrived with the tulips and the okra, so I defrosted and sautéed it (in my new square copper pan, boy is that easy to clean!) and dumped it into the new gumbo.

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The table looked much better with three of these tulip bouquets.

Then I combined both gumbos and tasted it again.  Not bad, but would it be better when the shrimp was in?  I had to know.

So it was time to defrost the shrimp, purchased specially because the shrimp were from the Gulf and not Indonesia.  It’s hard to find USA shrimp in New England (as opposed to Texas).  The problem was that we had saved it for so long that it had FREEZER BURN and looked like cauliflower.

So NancyK and I raced to the grocery store six miles away and bought five bags of frozen, peeled, deveined and de-tailed shrimp and I don’t know where the hell it came from and didn’t care, either.  Our guests were arriving in twenty-six minutes.

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Thank goodness for this.

NancyK defrosted the shrimp in batches, under cold water, while I readied the brown rice and the white rice.  I unfortunately forgot to set the timer.  The white rice would take 25 minutes and the brown 40 minutes, but the damn brown rice took too long and wasn’t cooked until after the first round of gumbo was consumed.

Now I know you’re wondering how the gumbo tasted.  Everyone there said it was wonderful, but honestly?  I wasn’t totally convinced.  A layer of flavor was missing and I still don’t know what it was.

That bugs me.

We also had ham.  Sweet potato casserole.  Beans!  Coleslaw.  Sangria!  Birthday cake.  It was so much fun.  Maddy, the nineteen-year old granddaughter of Mayme and George, was a special guest (we hope she’ll come back over and over again) and won a scratch ticket in the Easter Egg Hunt.

Yes, there was an Easter Egg Hunt.

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I filled all the eggs–except the hot pink ones–with candy.  Banjo Man hid them in the back and side yards.  Everyone was told to find four eggs.  Amidst the complaints that the pink eggs had no candy, I produced six lottery scratch tickets.  Those lucky enough to have found the hot pink eggs had chances to win $500-$2000.

Very few of us (if any?) had gambled with these scratch tickets before, so there was a lot of hilarious confusion over how it worked.

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George won $3.00.  NancyK won $1.00.

Not exactly a Big Money kind of egg hunt, but we enjoyed the fresh air and Banjo Man’s cascading rock water fountain before we returned inside for birthday cake.

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Ginny spells with jelly beans!  So pretty.

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Mom’s 91st birthday.

I gave Mom containers of gumbo for future meals and froze the rest of it, along with 10 cups of brown rice.  Fresh red pepper and file powder might help, but I’m going to wait a few weeks before I try again.  My Gumbo Queen ego is a bit crushed.

It was a lovely day, one of the best Easter parties ever.

 

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I love tulips.

 

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easter prep

 

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These tulips are not going to make it until Sunday.

 

It’s that time of year again, but this Easter I’m hosting the party at our house instead of my mother’s.  After all, I have a dishwasher.  And plenty of chairs.  We decided to keep things simple and not cart all of the food over the hill and through the woods to Grandma’s house.

Seriously.  It’s through the woods and over the hill, to be exact.

If you look closely at the above picture, you will see the gorgeous “Art of the Pie” cookbook I just picked up from the library.  I’m experimenting with pie crusts right now.  You’ll also notice the new “Gumbo” cookbook, purchased in New Orleans last December.

We’re having shrimp-okra gumbo along with the ham.

There will be plastic eggs, candy and yes, those cloth napkins definitely need to be ironed.

And then there’s the stuff on the kitchen island.

 

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Some of this stuff is dirty and some of this stuff is clean.

 

Check out the open kitchen window.  Can you believe it?  Warm (er) weather at last!  See the flowers by the sink?  I have big plans for them as a centerpiece.

The cans are all beans.  Four different kinds.  I’m thinking about making that recipe for Sunday, if I have the time.   The brown paper bag contains white wine and Austin’s Deep Eddy lemon vodka.

My most pathetic Easter was back in the ’80’s, in Idaho.  We were trying to come up with ideas to raise money to build a community center and the Saturday before Easter Sunday about a dozen of us organized–and cooked!!!– the first annual Ham Dinner fundraiser.  I think 98% of the town showed up.  Aside from helping with all of the cooking, Dancing Mandolin Player and I created about 100 little bags of candy so the children in town could have an Easter Hunt behind the elementary school (the dinner was being held in the basement cafeteria).  Right after we “hid” all the bags, and minutes before the children were ready to “hunt”, dark clouds flew in from the lake and pelted all of us with hail.  And rain.  And wind.

It was very sad.

The Ham Dinner was a big success (and continued on for quite a few years after), but on Easter morning I was so tired I could barely move.  I remember struggling to lift one eyelid to admire the baskets my three children were so excited about, but then I descended back into oblivion.  For hours.  And hours.  And hours.  I missed most of the day and I still feel badly about that.

Do you think they remember?

It’s always a little scary to hear their stories of their childhood, in their point of view. 

 

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cupcakes, birthdays and sunshine

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Sunday afternoon Banjo Man went down the street to Sam and Claire’s birthday party.  Sam turned four and Claire was one, so family and friends gathered for a sunny afternoon outdoors.  (Outdoors!  In the sun! Can you believe it?)

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There were gorgeous cupcakes.

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And gorgeous children.

What a fun way to greet Spring!

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