hector, please go home

hector

Banjo Man and I couldn’t decide what to watch last night, so as I was browsing through Netflix I saw this movie, “Hector”, set in Scotland.  What the heck.  It’s Scotland.  We’ll love the scenery and the accents.

Oops.

The good news:  this movie is only 1 hour and 27 minutes long.

The bad news:  this movie feels like it’s 3 hours and 27 minutes long.

Here’s the description from IMDB:

“A portrait of an invisible man and an authentic account of homelessness within contemporary Britain, Hec McAdam is at once a powerful character study and an insight into the lives of those on the margins. Hec has been living around the motorways with transient friends for years. After so long on the move, he hopes to have left his past far behind. Our story follows his annual pilgrimage, on the roads and in the cities, from Scotland to a shelter in London to be with his temporary Christmas family . But his clock is ticking and he is compelled to try to reconnect with his real family he last saw 15 years before.”

Hector is a likable guy, always polite to his friends and strangers.  He has a bad leg and walks with a crutch as he drags his blue suitcase with him everywhere he travels.  He’s on the road.  And living on the road is not easy, as you see for a very long hour and a half of Hector’s endlessly depressing road trip.

The movie really shows what being homeless is like, but as the movie goes on we see that Hector has always had options.  And yet being homeless and not dealing with the grief of his past has turned Hector into a weak character (although at first you think he is a hell of a strong guy).  Hector has Issues.  He also has a pension and National Health Care.

Go figure.

I loved the “kindness of strangers” bits, the people who so sweetly offered food and clothing and shelter and rides.  Those scenes were the bright spots in an otherwise dreary tale.  Too many scenes of Hector hitchhiking, sleeping on sidewalks and limping in pain along the sides of roads made me want to dig out the tequila and self-medicate.

I resisted.  The maple-flavored pumpkin seeds sufficed as Hector bought a new suitcase and fur-trimmed hat, then donned a donated jacket and decent shoes.

I wished him well, but I didn’t want to see any more of him.

Neither did Banjo Man.

 

 

 

 

 

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45 thumbs up

A funny thing happened last Christmas when I was trying to come up with dinners the family would like.

I get tired of making the same things over and over again, though everyone insists they like lasagna and enchiladas and meatballs.  Maybe they are just being polite.  Maybe they long for a change.  Maybe they wish Mom would–please God–make something else.

Banjo Man suggested a Blast From the Past, Shepherd’s Pie, something I made when the kids were all home and around the dining room table every night.

So I did and it was such a hit!  The Funny Grandson was suspicious at first and balked at eating the unknown casserole, but he choked it down and later admitted it was “okay”.

The rest of the family had seconds and fought over the leftovers.

So during March’s visit, I made another shepherd’s pie.  It disappeared quickly, much to Will’s disappointment.  It turned out to be the perfect lunch for him to take to work and heat up in “the pit” at Black’s.

The Funny  Grandson shoveled in two helpings and gave it an enthusiastic rating of “45 thumbs up”.

We all fought over the leftovers.

So I made another one.

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Shepherd’s Pie, 2018.

And then I got sick, so all cooking came to a screeching halt.  The day before I finally headed home, Will picked up the ingredients for a third pie.  I felt well enough to make another one, so here it is.

The recipe is embarrassingly simple, but if you want to relive the 1980’s, be my guest.

SHEPHERD’S PIE

2 pounds of lean hamburger
2 packets of taco seasoning
water (follow the directions on the seasoning packet).

Brown the hamburger, drain the grease, add the packets and follow the directions on the packet.  Simmer for 10 minutes or so.

Press into a 13 x 9 pan.

For the mashed potatoes, follow the directions on the instant potato box.  I use 6 cups water, 3 cups milk, 1 1/2 tsp salt, 1 stick butter.  And add 6 cups of potato flakes.  Follow the directions on the box.  I also stir in an 8 oz package of cream cheese (cubed) to give the potatoes more body and flavor, but that’s optional.  It melts nicely when you stir it in with half of the flakes before adding the rest of the flakes.

Spread the potatoes on top of the meat.  Then I shred about a cup of cheddar cheese and sprinkle on top.

Bake uncovered at 350 for about 45 minutes, until hot and the cheese has melted.

I know some people add corn to the burger, but when the kids were small they liked their corn “on the side”.  I served this year’s Shepherd’s Pie with fancy green salads instead of a vegetable.

Just put this in the “Comfort Food” category.

 

 

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but it’s april!!!

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This is so wrong.  In so many ways.

We’re supposed to get about 4″.  Tomorrow it will melt.  And then?

Could we please see some daffodils?  Please?

 

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birthday wishes

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I’m guessing this was taken in 1993.

Happy Birthday to my daughter!  Yes, she was born on April 1st.  So her birthday is very easy to remember…and we never, ever play tricks on her on her birthday.

Don’t you love that smile?

Happy  Easter, everyone.  We are grateful that there is no snow on the ground here in  Rhode Island.

Banjo Man is still recovering from the Texas Virus, but I have pretty much bounced back.  We are now together again in Rhode Island, after my very uneventful and ear-pain-free flights home.

Today we will be celebrating Easter at my mother’s lovely assisted living facility.  They have a beautiful dining room and special plans for Easter dinner.  Since I’ve been contributing food for or in charge of cooking Easter dinners since I was nineteen, this is going to be very different.

In a good way.

We’ll be having birthday cake and presents after dinner.  Hurray for parties!

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Nancy and her best friend of many years, Keeley.

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home alone

IMG_0767Banjo Man is no longer in his favorite spot at the Continental Club.  See how happy he looks?  He was waiting for Hey Bale to begin playing.

He’s back in Rhode Island now, suffering from the same virus I have.  We talk on the phone and cough together.

I’m still in Texas.  I changed my flight home again after seeing a doctor today.  My ears are getting better, but aren’t ready for changes in altitude quite yet.  So now Thursday is hopefully when I will head home.

I hope.

I think we’ve postponed Easter for a week.  I’m still thinking of making gumbo instead of ham as we celebrate Mom’s 92nd birthday.

Meanwhile, here in Austin, Will and I are experimenting with making chocolate covered coffee beans.

But that’s another story….

 

 

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coughing in austin

Yes, that’s what I’m doing here in Texas.  Banjo Man headed home yesterday and we are hoping that neither he or Son Will gets this nasty virus.  Son Ben and the Funny Grandson are both sick with the same thing and on antibiotics.

Sometimes I think Texas is a very, very germy state.  The last four times I have been sick was because of Texas.

Oh, dear.

I went to a local walk in clinic on Monday.  They have beautiful state of the art clinics here, by the way.  Probably because everyone is always sick.  The doctor said I had a virus (acute upper respiratory tract infection), prescribed some codeine cough syrup and seemed bored.  An hour later I had a massive head cold. Or is it a sinus infection?

I was clearly not getting on a plane Tuesday afternoon.

This is not fun.

I would feel better if I had antibiotics, so if I don’t feel a lot healthier tomorrow I will head to another clinic and beg for some.

I really want to feel better and fly home.  ASAP.  Son Will is taking good care of me but I don’t want him to get this virus either, so I stay in my room tucked into bed with tissues, tea and my Kindle.  I am quite cozy.

Back in Rhode Island, Banjo Man is preparing for another snow storm.

Other news: thank goodness the Austin bomber  is no more.  That was the good news this morning, though we’ve been warned there could be more packages out there.

Time for a  nap.  It’s a beautiful day here and I wish I could take a walk and enjoy the sun.  Maybe tomorrow!

 

 

 

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seen on south congress

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acoustic mcmurtry

IMG_0782Tuesday night at the Continental Club Gallery James McMurtry does a 90-minute acoustic set.

Just James and his two guitars (one is a 12 string that sounds like heaven).

Austin-based McMurtry has a reputation for being a bit, well, grumpy.  He’s reclusive, serious, silent.  But recently he has stunned his longtime fans with his easy banter on Tuesday nights.

We lined up outside  45 minutes early to snag a seat on one of the couches.  It’s a small venue, intimate and cozy, meant for listening to the music and not talking to your date.

I’m sorry these pictures are so big.  I can’t figure out how to edit them on the new Kindle.IMG_0784Here’s the stage before the show.

The songs were incredible.  As was the guitar-playing.   We were mesmerized.  And thrilled to be there.

Will was with us, but he prefers to stand in the back of the room instead of up front on the couch.  He hates being in front, but we love it.

It was a beautiful evening and a quiet walk home.  SXSW hadn’t quite geared up yet, so we had the sidewalks to ourselves.  It’s a different story now.  People are here and the city is alive with music!

 

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long way from home

IMG_0771While New England prepared for another storm yesterday, we ate an early dinner on the patio outside of Whole Foods.

Snow??  What snow???

It’s a hard life.

The day began with breakfast at Habanero’s, a local Mexican place with fabulous breakfast tacos. On to the Alamo Drafthouse to see Annialation, starring Natalie Portman.  We hoped it wouldn’t be too scary for Banjo Man but it turned out to be more ridiculous than thrilling.

On to Waterloo Records to load up on new cd’s.  And then across the street to Whole Foods.

There was a plan to walk down Congress to listen to jazz, but Banjo Man decided he had had enough fun for one day.  So we rented a movie, THREE BILLBOARDS OUTSIDE OF EBBING, MISSOURI and stayed home.

I loved it.  The more I think about it today the more I love that movie.  And the theme.  And the characters.

If you’ve seen it, do you agree with me?

Today I am making another giant pan of shepherd’s pie, as requested.  And then a vat of meatballs.  The next few days will require easy meals in the crock pot for whatever time the music stops and we are hungry and tired.  The lines at the local restaurants will be long.  We’ve learned it is easier to eat at home before setting out for Round 2.

My beloved, trusty Kindle Fire  HDX died Saturday, as did the crock pot.  Both were immediately replaced on Sunday.  Odd typos that might crop up in this blog are due to this old dog dealing with new tricks…and an inferior Kindle Fire.  Sigh.

Hopefully the crock pot will be a better purchase.

Sending love to those of you  dealing with the storm…..

 

 

 

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friday morning tournament

We’ve had blueberry pancakes at the Magnolia Cafe and now it’s time for a little friendly competition.  One competitor is almost 77 and the other is 7.  The matches are very close.

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Root beer floats will be served later.  To replenish the brain cells….

 

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