need a hug

I couldn’t wait another month to get a “Grandma hug”, so yesterday Banjo Man suggested I get on a plane and head to Texas asap.  Because this little guy is waiting for me.

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Thank you, Southwest, for some great travel deals.  Thank you,  Banjo Man, for a great idea.

We’re partying in Austin in March.  Family and friends are flying in from North Carolina, Nebraska and California.  Glen’s nephew is exhibiting at the film festival and will be demonstrating his film inventions.  We can’t wait!

So between lots of hugs and babysitting (fun, fun, fun!!!) and shopping (hurray for a daughter-in-law who likes Ikea!!) I’ll be making and freezing meatballs and chicken enchiladas and all sorts of goodies for the following month, because listening to music makes you very hungry.

It really does.

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South Congress Cafe

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Torchy’s or Magnolia Cafe leftovers?

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slave to fashion

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I’ve been watching a lot of shows on the History and Science channels lately. “Ancient Aliens”, “America Unearthed”, “River Monsters”, stuff like that.

In 2004 Will (son #2) and I met in northern England, where he was finishing up a summer as a volunteer on a dig at Bamburgh Castle.  I’m going to blog about that trip this week, because things are quiet here in New England and I’ve done enough whining about writing.  The baby quilt is coming along nicely (after an invigorating trip to the local fabric store for more thread and just a little bit more blue fabric), the new “Blues For the Fiddle” dvd lessons are inspiring me to practice for hours and my office is clean.

So I thought I’d revisit Scotland.

This picture was taken in the Orkneys.  Will and I had just ascended from a mysterious hole in the ground called “Mine Howe”.  We’d paid our 2 pounds, been given helmets and sent up the hill to make our way down the slippery stone steps dug into the earth.

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Anyway, while I was looking at old pictures and found this gorgeous one of More Pie The Archaeologist, I realized I still have that coat, those boots, the sweater (which I bought in Orkney and love) and those pants.  Nine years later and I wore that coat to the movies last week. Hmm.

I’ve been known to wear some really horrendous outfits around my house.  Truly, you cannot imagine.  After the last months of writing and rarely having to get dressed to leave the house, I’ve sunk to new lows of “letting oneself go”.

Poor Banjo Man.  I have spent way too many days looking like someone who lives under a bridge. Or in a deep hole in the ground.

So I have changed my ways. My goal is to get dressed in something decent every day, something decent enough so that if anyone dropped in to say hello I wouldn’t have to hide in the bathroom because otherwise they would think I was (a) psychotic or (b) had the flu.
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Glamour is now my middle name.

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due may 22

You may remember this couple?

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They’re having a baby.  A boy.  In May!
Isn’t that exciting???!!!!

So I get to make a quilt.

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I love to pick out fabric from my shelves. Quilters call it a “fabric pull”, which means we pull out whatever we think might work in a quilt and audition it with other fabric. Decisions are made. Fabric is ironed. Then cut.
I love to cut fabric. That’s my favorite part of putting a quilt together.
I cut 448 little white squares, 448 triangles and 56 little print squares.
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Then I sewed. I listened to Gillian Welch cd’s. I hummed. My sewing machine hummed.
Life was good.

2013-01-30 012We had a wind and rain storm last night and many Rhode Islanders are out of power.  So far we’re fine, which means I’ll be sewing another pile of these triangles this morning!

We’re lucky we didn’t lose any more trees.

I’m lucky to have plenty of fabric, thread and a brand new iron, the kind that doesn’t shut itself off every 8 minutes.  I opened every box of every style iron in Walmart to read the instructions until I found an iron that shut itself off in one whole hour.

I wish they wouldn’t shut themselves off at all.  Is it a law or something?

 

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taking time off to quilt

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well, this was fun!

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Banjo Man’s movie weekend continued on Sunday, when he took my mother and I to Newport to see a movie he’d read about in a newspaper he’d perused while waiting to meet a client.

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I didn’t think to bring my camera–it’s 8 degrees, on an island, not far from the water so I wasn’t thinking about spending time outside–but I wished I’d taken a picture so I could show it to you.  The 1834 Jane Pickens theatre is one of many gems in Newport.  It shows the “little” movies that don’t get played in the big movie complexes.

Such as QUARTET.

Imagine a luxurious retirement home in a British countryside estate. A retirement home for musicians.

Imagine a retirement home full of aging musicians who have made the decision to keep singing, keep performing, keep playing music, no matter the insults of aging.

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a weekend of movies

Banjo Man has been feeling neglected.

Actually, he’s a very patient man.  No one else would have put up with a depressed, unhappy, miserable, exhausted, stressed and self-pitying writer for all of these past months.

Banjo Man deserves a medal.

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I finished rewriting 2/3 of my book at 10 AM Friday.   Then I went back to bed and slept until 4 PM.  It is cold here and my electric blanket is my best friend.  After I woke up and changed into non-writer-bag-lady-living-on-the-streets clothes, I followed Banjo Man around the house.  I’d missed him.  I needed to keep telling him I’d finished the revisions and was no longer crazy.

He was happy to hear that.  So happy he wanted to go to the movies.  He’d been waiting and waiting and waiting for me to finish writing so we could actually GO OUT SOMEWHERE.  So on Saturday we went to the noon show of ZERO DARK THIRTY” and to the 4:00 show of LINCOLN.  Between shows we walked to Applebees for a late lunch.  We both fell asleep during the previews before Lincoln, but woke up to watch the movie.

We really, really enjoyed both movies.

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Random thoughts:

I wish I worked for the CIA.

I’m glad I don’t have to jump out of helicopters in the dark.

I can’t wait for the next Vince Flynn novel to come out.

It takes a certain kind of genius to write a book and/or make a movie about the passage of a constitutional amendment.

Movie popcorn doesn’t smell as good as it used to.

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searching for sugar man

We rented this from Netflix and LOVED it!!!  I don’t want to say too much and give away the story, but if you love music, remember the 60’s and 70’s or are a musician or love history, this is for you.

A great story.

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From Amazon:  “SEARCHING FOR SUGAR MAN tells the incredible true story of Rodriguez the greatest `70s rock icon who never was. After being discovered in a Detroit bar Rodriguez’s sound struck 2 renowned producers and they signed a recording deal. But when the album bombed the singer disappeared into obscurity. A bootleg recording found its way into apartheid South Africa and over the next two decades he became a phenomenon. The film follows the story of two South African fans who set out to find out what really happened to their hero.”
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road fever

Banjo Man came home from town with this yesterday.

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He was very excited.  Even if it’s actually 2013, not 2012.
One word:  sale.

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a rhode island snowball holder

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a little winter goes a long way

Here in New England we’re sneaking through the winter without a lot of snow, without massive snowstorms or long icy weeks when stores run out of ice-melting pellets.  Last night we had our second storm, nothing big (5″), but according to the local weathermen we’re going into more cold weather and more snow.  So…we’re not sneaking through a mild winter any longer.

My good friend Carolyn Haines in Alabama asked me to send her a photo of snow.

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Dear Carolyn,
This is what a rhododendron bush looks like in January.
Love,
Your friend who has not finished her revisions and therefore has not called you.

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