it’s finished!

And so a two-year saga comes to an end.  Water damage from (a) outside storm pipes not draining properly and (b) the upstairs neighbor’s leaking pipe led to the destruction of walls, the floor and two cabinets in our little Austin condo.

This occurred before Austin’s famous Big Freeze of 2021, after which it took many months to find a contractor who had the time and inclination to take on the small job.

Will tore up all the flooring and replaced the drywall.  He and I picked out tile last October and a new floor was installed throughout the entire 640 square feet of living space.

Finding a contractor and having that contractor return my calls was a challenge.  After three months I finally texted the head of the company and asked him to assign another project manager, one who didn’t lie, didn’t blame others, and actually responded to texts and emails.  He did so–promptly.

Which I appreciated.

Before:

After:

And check this out!  I had pull-out shelves installed so we wouldn’t have to get on our hands and knees to see what was in the back of the cabinets.

I am seriously in love.

 

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little again

Good morning.

Son Will texted this song to me yesterday.  I wanted to share.  It seemed especially poignant this week, as the walls close in and we worry about the upcoming surgery and the road ahead.

There are times when I wish I was nine again watching my father carefully tighten the laces on my ice skates.  A simple winter Saturday.

What about you?

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fugitive on the loose

There’s nothing like a police chase to make for an interesting day.

Banjo Man says that makes me sound crazy.  I’m sorry if it does, BUT I am tired of cleaning, of sewing, of cooking, of British history, of worrying about Covid and cancer and construction schedules.  Not in that order.

So I ask you, if a huge police event was happening in your neighborhood, would you want to watch?

Or have I lost my mind, as my poor husband fears?

As we stayed tucked away in our house yesterday afternoon (day 10 of our personal lockdown), all sorts of things were happening in The Outside World.  Namely, a man in Massachusetts had burned his house down, fled the police after taking a few shots at them and, brandishing a weapon, headed towards RI in his Toyota truck.

This wouldn’t have gotten my attention, except for the fact that, according to local radio news, he was now–hours later– driving towards my town.

And as he headed south (at the speed limit, by the way) across the state, over the Newport bridge and back, cruising on to Route 1, he was followed by an increasing number of police vehicles.  I heard all about it on the radio and then–lo and behold–heard the parade of police sirens as they streamed past us on the highway.

A Boston tv station broadcast the live stream from a helicopter, so my afternoon was spent ironing quilt blocks while watching a white truck navigate familiar roads.  He drove past Walmart, went into downtown Westerly, passed my YMCA, took some back roads and then ended up heading towards I-95 on the 78 Bypass.  I couldn’t believe what I was watching.  And then, rear ended by a police car, went into a bit of a spin and landed gently–in slow motion–against a tree in a wooded area just over the Connecticut line.

Even more time was spent waiting for the guy to get out of his truck.  I think there were twenty SWAT team guys surrounding him. The shirtless driver continued to hang out the driver’s window and yell at the police.  It looked like he was drinking a beer and holding a pistol, but the video was a bit fuzzy.

The standoff took a while, like a scene from an action movie.  The helicopter hovered.  The police shot pepper spray from their rifles.  An armored truck edged closer to the truck’s tailgate.

Nothing like this had ever happened before in our little rural part of Rhode Island.  

Fortunately no one was hurt, the “fugitive” was eventually hauled out of the truck through the window.  He was handcuffed, given water, and then an EMT saw to the cuts on his forehead.  He was treated kindly.

I’m glad I’m not a policewoman.  And on a SWAT team.  I don’t know how they participate in a day-long car chase and a 90-minute standoff without having to go to the bathroom.

I wouldn’t have minded being in the helicopter, though.  Or operating a drone from two miles away.

We all have our little fantasies. 

So today I am drinking coffee and looking at quilt blocks and planning to get gas in the car and check the air in the tires.  I am contemplating baking a cranberry cake to take with us to the New Haven hotel.

In other words, back to normal.  And that’s just fine, too.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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hunting tapioca

Have you made tapioca pudding lately?  If so, where did you find the box of Kraft tapioca (aside from the back of a shelf in your kitchen)?

Hint:  nowhere.

Two weeks ago I desperately needed tapioca.  My friend Harley Chick was recovering from very serious emergency surgery while on vacation in her motorhome.  She and Hot Rod Russ had been heading to Florida, but on day three of the trip she ended up in a hospital in North Carolina.  She would be travelling home in a few days and, because she could only eat soft foods, I had the bright idea to make her a vat of tapioca pudding because she’d been living on mashed potatoes and pureed carrots.

This woman desperately needs pudding.

I hadn’t made tapioca pudding in about thirty years, if ever, so off I went to Walmart for the first time in a month.

I couldn’t find tapioca.  After roaming up and down several aisles, I looked it up on my phone.  My Walmart site told me what aisle it was in (the baking aisle) and that they had eight boxes.

They lied.  I had already spent long minutes roaming up and down that aisle.  Lucky for me, the store was practically deserted so I could take my time and study every shelf.

So I ended up doing what everyone does when desperate:  I went home and ordered it on Amazon.

Did you know that “large pearl” tapioca is a big deal and an ingredient for something called “bubble tea”?  I didn’t.  There are many flavors of this, but I ordered my box of Kraft Minute Tapioca and all was right with the world.

Two days later, as Harley Chick’s motor home was chugging into Rhode Island, I was ready to create.  This had to be non-dairy, so of course I went on Pinterest and found a recipe for Vegan Tapioca Pudding using almond milk.

It was quite a process, and in the end it tasted like glue.  It wasn’t the almond milk’s fault, though.  Honest.

I tried again, this time using a recipe recommended by friend whose mother made it this way.  On the back of the box there’s a recipe called “Fluffy Tapioca” which basically involves beating egg whites and boiling everything else.

It turned out okay.   And worthy of Harley Chick.  But it wasn’t the creamy pudding I remembered from childhood.

Harley Chick said it was delicious, but she is a sweet, kind soul who would never say anything negative about a gift.

A few days later I noticed there was another recipe, this time on the side of the box.  It was very, very simple and I couldn’t resist trying it.  Banjo Man might find it to be the perfect snack while he was recovering from his own surgery.

We both liked it enough to eat the whole pan.

And now I was out of tapioca again, so I returned to Amazon–the place from where all things come–and ordered a bag of Bob’s Red Mill tapioca pearls.  Bob has a recipe on his package, too.  Do I dare try it?

Version #4 coming next week, when Banjo Man is home from the hospital and needs comfort food.

If you have The Perfect Tapioca Pudding Recipe and want to share, please do.  Harley Chick is on the mend, but I’m going to make her another batch to see if I can get it right.

Wish me luck.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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if i had a dog

From agilejack1.com

Yes, if I had a dog I would teach him to carry fabric on his head.  And then I would laugh and laugh and give him smelly bacon treats.

And then I would cut up those fabrics and put them in a quilt.  Four of the six fabrics on this pup’s head are the same as in the quilt below.  I used lots of wild florals for snowball blocks, as you can see.

My design screen came in very handy.

And today, after a couple of thousand hours of machine quilting (yes, I’m exaggerating, but lots of things went wrong in the process and it felt like I’d spent a long month in front of the machine), it is ready for hand-stitching.

My fancy, complicated, expensive sewing machine is a joy in so many ways, but when it comes to free motion quilting the thing balks and acts like it never saw thread before in its life.

There are good days and bad days.

I am not inexperienced when it comes to free motion quilting.  I’ve taken classes.  I took a four-hour class from Karen McTavish, for God’s sake!  And I aced it.  But my machine and I have a long way to go before we can “McTavish” together.

She is so cool she even has quilting feather tattoos.

Here’s an example of her quilting:

I like to swirl, too.  My machine is not a fan of swirling, though.  And I can’t figure out why not.

So…while we are quarantining this week I am determined to spend some time solving this problem.  I need new glasses, so the stitching won’t be as small as I’d like, but there must be a way to glide and swirl and create lovely patterns again.

If that doesn’t work, I’ll balance fabric on my head and drink tequila.

 

 

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what’s streaming on the big tv

HBO Max:  Somebody Somewhere, described as a “dark comedy” about a woman in Kansas finding her voice and finding a community while dealing with grief.

I am not making this sound like the wonderful show it is.  The characters are a joy and I loved them all.  Well, except for the mother.  It is raunchy and there is a lot of swearing, so beware.

The phrase “dark comedy” always turns me off.  But we were desperate for something to watch last week and there it was and Banjo Man said what’s that and I clicked on it and we were hooked.

HBO Max:  The Gilded Age.  Written by Julian Fellowes (of Downton Abbey fame), it chronicles New York during the time of the Gilded Age, with the Astors, Rockefellers and Vanderbilts running the show.  It starts out slowly, but the acting improved and the plots were fun.  I was absolutely entertained by seeing locations from Newport, especially from the Breakers, the Vanderbilt estate.  It was lovely to see the tennis courts on Bellevue Avenue, the staircases and the ballrooms of the mansions.  I’ve toured these homes many, many times and never get tired of taking people to see them.  I’ve been known to go by myself, just for fun.

Oh–and the costumes on this show are gorgeous!

Netflix:  Rescued by Ruby.  This based-on-a-true-story-in-Rhode-Island film is definitely one for everyone in the family.  It’s a sweet story of a rescue dog who was herself rescued from a shelter and trained to be a search & rescue dog with the RI State Police K-9 program.  There have been a number of interviews on local radio with the “real” people of the story and the story is actually pretty accurate.  The characters are true to life.  There is a documentary, which was what the movie was based upon.  Ruby is still working in the K-9 Unit with her handler Daniel O’Neill.

Netflix:  After Life.  A Ricky Gervais creation, it’s a three-season series about a man grieving for his wife and trying to cope.  Another “dark comedy”, it’s one I avoided for a few years due to the wife dying of breast cancer and who needs that?  But once again the characters are brilliant and we love this show so much we binged an entire season Saturday night.

Netflix:  Power of the Dog.  Saving the worst for last, we think this is one to avoid.  We may have lasted for ten or fifteen minutes before switching it off, as the main character was so awful and the setting was so grim we just didn’t want this in our living room for another couple of hours.

Netflix’s description: “A domineering rancher responds with mocking cruelty when his brother brings home a new wife and her son, until the unexpected comes to pass.”

I read a ton of reviews on the film.  I wondered if we were the only two people on the planet who didn’t “get” it.  Had we watched so much “Seaside Hotel” and so many Danish police dramas that we couldn’t appreciate the beauty and genius of a grim Western?

The reviews I read were definitely mixed, with more people hating the film than those defending it.  But the ones who loved it really, really loved it.  One particular reviewer wrote that “only elite Netflix viewers” would appreciate the genius of this “homo-erotic thriller”.

Wow.

I am definitely not an elite Netflix viewer.

Banjo Man and I don’t settle ourselves on the couch, malted milk balls and popcorn at the ready, and say, “Gee, I can’t wait to watch a new homo-erotic thriller tonight.  Pass the remote over here and let’s see what we can find!”

If you’ve seen it and loved it, please let me know why.  

So that’s it from the living room.  I’ve started adding shows to my Watchlist in anticipation of Banjo Man’s post-surgery recovery period.  Suggestions are welcome!

 

 

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before, during and after

Here’s a picture of The Tree a few winters ago.

Then there was this, as I’m sure you remember from my many posts whining about it:

Two weeks ago, before the crew came to remove the branches, one by one.  There was a bucket truck, a crew of three and several chainsaws.

The result?

Ugly, huh?  See the pile of wood?  Friends are coming today to take it for their wood burning stove.

We are glad we know someone with a wood stove.

When the wood is gone, the tree crew will return and take down the rest of the tree.  Which means a lot more wood for a stove, just in case the winter of 2023 is a tough one.

We’ll miss the shade of The Tree.  We’ll miss watching the owl who liked to sit on its lower branch and look for breakfast.

But I won’t miss the dumpster.

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seaside hotel

This series from Denmark was one of the best things that happened to us all winter.

I kid you not.

You can watch it with a Masterpiece/PBS subscription.  It’s worth paying for it for a month while you binge on nine seasons.

Beginning in 1928, each season chronicles a summer on the shore of  Denmark, in the “Seaside Hotel”.  The same guests return each year.  The staff of the inn remains the same, for the most part.  The story begins when a new girl arrives to work as a maid at the hotel for the summer.

It’s been described as a Danish “Downtown Abbey”.

You grow to love all of the characters.  One of our particular favorites was “Mr. Weyse”, an actor who frequently plays the piano and entertains everyone.  And who falls hilariously and hopelessly in love with a woman he can’t have.

The characters are charming and funny and sweet.  They grapple with the rise of Hitler.  They fall in love.  They are hilarious at times and sad at others.

Yes, there are subtitles.  But the Danish language is easy on the ears.

I hope you try it.  Put it on your list for next winter.  We loved it so much we tried to ration ourselves to two episodes a night.

When we finished the last episode, Banjo Man turned to me and said, “Maybe we should start over and watch it again.”

We miss our Danish friends.  I’ve read there’s a season 10 to be filmed, so maybe next  year we’ll be seeing them again.  Oh, I hope so!

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the broken winter is almost over

In progress, almost five months later.

Our old, tree-damaged front door has been removed and a new one has been installed.

Two weeks ago a lot of men showed up to fix things.  I’m not sure why this particular day was selected by two different crews, but it was very exciting to look out my office window and see this:

They were everywhere!

Our horrible old slider was removed and replaced, too.  Check out the old front door in the dumpster.

The tree removal crew arrived also.  There were three of them, plus a bucket truck.  It took almost two days to saw the branches from the tree.  We were thrilled to have that done, because we’d had another branch fall down in the driveway.  It was a disaster waiting to happen.

The car windshield repair guy was supposed to arrive during that week, but the wrong windshield was ordered and had to be reordered.

But the car windshield is fixed now.

As is the car, which scared us to death with a blinking engine light and all sorts of terrible noises.  We rented a car while it was being fixed, though I left my EZ Pass transponder in the rental car and have to get a new one.

The mysteriously broken house windows will be replaced in May.

The new doors will be painted and wall repairs made in May also, because I won’t let the crew return until then.  We are quarantining now so NOTHING–no Covid, no flu, no cold– interferes with Banjo Man’s surgery.  As my grandson has taught me and loves to hear me say, “I have spoken.  This is the way.”

It’s Star Wars speak.

Our propane fireplace is burning nicely now that it has been repaired…twice…after having no heat upstairs for all of January.

The electrician returned for the fourth (fifth?) time and fixed the light switch that turns on the light over the stairs.  He was quite the character.  I hid in my office the last two times he was here because I was tired of being nice to him.

The Austin condo is almost fixed, too!!!  This has been a long and stressful and frustrating project, but it comes to an end today when the dishwasher is reinstalled and a tile backsplash is applied to the wall by the sink.

Will and I think it will be beautiful.

And in eleven days Banjo Man will be fixed, too.  That is more important than everything else put together.

And then the Winter of Broken Things will be behind us.

I have spoken.

 

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fifty-nine days away

In 59 days, Banjo Man and I will be arriving in Spokane.  Last night I received an email from Southwest stating they have changed our flights.  No surprise there.  Southwest is very good at changing flights.

I just hope they don’t cancel them entirely, the way they did last year.

So instead of arriving at midnight, we are landing at 2:30 pm.  We’d planned to spend the night in Spokane, but I don’t know what we’re doing now.

We are arriving in June instead of April due to Banjo Man needing surgery.

I haven’t blogged about this before now.  But it’s time.

Last October, two days before the tree fell on the roof, we suspected Banjo Man would be dealing with prostate cancer.   Blood tests showed his PSA number had risen quite a bit.  A special scan before Thanksgiving showed there was cancer localized on one edge of the prostate.

Extensive biopsies in early January showed that he was in more trouble than anyone imagined.  Prostate cancer is measured by a Gleason score, 1-10.  We were dealing with 9/10 on all sixteen samples taken.  It’s a very aggressive cancer.

As explained to us:  this cancer can’t be cured, but it can be treated.

That’s the important thing to remember.

We fought cancer three years ago.  And we will do it again.

We opted for hormone treatments combined with radiation instead of surgery. Unfortunately, after several weeks of brutal side affects, a trip to the ER and radiation having to be postponed, Banjo Man is back to the surgical option.

And that happens on Monday,  April 18th, in New Haven.  Banjo Man has a top surgeon who has performed over 2500 robotic prostate removals.   This guy is the real deal and we are so lucky he agreed to operate.

There is a 15% chance this surgery will cure the cancer.

There is either an 85% chance or a 50% chance he will need radiation within the year.  That number depends on which doctor we’re talking to.

The surgery won’t be easy, nor will the recovery.  But four weeks later he should be back to normal.  There will be no procedures, shots or radiation for at least six months.

Which gives Banjo Man plenty of time to enjoy his cabin.

Banjo Man in his happy place.

And that is where you will find him this summer.  We’ve become really good at “enjoying the moment” and that’s exactly what is going to happen in the future.

So on April 18, say a prayer.  Cross your fingers.  Think good thoughts.

Until then, you can find us on the couch in front of the tv.  We’re resting up for what’s ahead.  And eating popcorn.

 

 

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