there will be turkey

This is my Thanksgiving 2021 mantra.

Yesterday my one-man, non-English-speaking crew started repairing drywall.  And mudding the drywall.  Today he is sanding and priming, along with repairing the drywall that tumbled off the beam when the tree hit.  He doesn’t speak English, so Banjo Man’s attempts to tell him not to come to work today didn’t work.

My furniture is shoved into the middle of the living room/dining/kitchen area and covered with sheets.

A dumpster was just delivered and fills the parking spaces.  The huge chunks of wood from the tree are still there, too (someone was supposed to come get them).

In other words, it doesn’t look like Thanksgiving here.  Not yet.

BUT IT WILL!!!

Last night Banjo Man, Nancy and I set up the tables and chairs (temporarily) to see what would work.  We picked out tablecloths.  I starched and ironed napkins.  We made the potato casserole.

This morning I have decided to take the coward’s way out and leave the house for a couple of hours.  I will buy an electric bread knife (I saw a very cool way to carve turkey breasts on tv), gather paint chips (no one can remember what color my walls were painted) and buy myself a comforting sandwich at Subway for lunch.

And tomorrow I will look forward to many things, most of all desserts.

 

 

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maybe i should have said no

Two days before Thanksgiving.

When Nels, head of construction crew, called last night to ask if they could come today and start the drywall and the painting, I said “sure”.

Yes, it is the week of Thanksgiving and yes, I was counting on setting up tables and selecting and ironing tablecloths today.  And yes, I know it is important to get these important and time-consuming projects done before Thursday morning, but…who says “no” to anyone prepared to work on her house?

Not me, obviously, though I did have second thoughts immediately after I hung up the phone.

Which is why tequila was invented.

So at 7:30 this morning the work began.  The drywall has been screwed into place in various parts of the house and the taping is sure to happen any minute.

They intend to paint two of the walls and the ceiling, but I can’t remember what color paints we used in 2019.  I think we can come close.  I’m not worried about it.

The roof won’t be installed until December 2nd.  Fingers crossed for dry weather.

On the Austin front, the first half of the tiling project in the condo is happening.  I hope it’s going well.  I’m a little afraid to call Will and ask.  He is dealing with bronchitis, stripping baseboards, moving kitchen cabinets and moving all of the furniture into the one and only bedroom.

He probably doesn’t have time to answer his phone today.

Despite everything going on here, we are very much looking forward to Thanksgiving!

 

 

 

 

 

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if you know what’s good for you…

Banjo Man doesn’t do any of the above.  Isn’t he smart?

He loves to come into the office in the morning and sit down on my sewing chair–while I’m at my desk–and survey the fabric spread around the tables.  There is usually a new project in the design stage while another is being stitched together.  He is very careful to set his coffee cup in a spot I clear just for him.  I like that he comes to visit.

He never, ever says anything critical about how much fabric I have so he is welcome to stop by anytime he wants.

The funniest question he often asks is, “You’re not giving that one away, are you?”

Well, yes, as a matter of fact, I am.

At least right now.

I have a big project in mind for January, a quilt I will most certainly keep only because it will take so much time and be so intricate and I’ve wanted to do the pattern for years.

Sometimes a quilt will be finished for a year or two before I discover who it would be perfect for.  Or I realize there is a bed at the lake or in Texas that needs another quilt.  Most of the time I create what I feel like and then see what happens.

I wonder what this will be…

 

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back to normal, kind of

A stack of new fabrics waiting their turn.

Now that the tree is off the roof and my house is safe and waterproofed, it is time to go back into the sewing room/office/music room and start a quilt.

We call this “stress sewing” in our house.  Much healthier than smoking, drinking and gambling.  And not as expensive…maybe.

An engineer came on Wednesday to decide what needs to be done.  His report will be submitted to the town for a building permit.  And then we’ll get a new roof.  Banjo Man thinks this will all happen before Thanksgiving, but I think he’s delusional.

Surely the interior work won’t begin until after Thanksgiving.   There will be eleven of us gathering AT LAST and don’t want the house torn up.

I think we’re getting a new front door.  And a lot of drywall patches.  And a new ceiling over the entry.

It can all wait until after November 26th, should anyone ask me.

Check out the “Caroline Herring” poster above my fabric stack.  Will heard her in Austin and grabbed a signed copy for me.  I’d never heard of her, but now I own several cd’s and absolutely love her voice.

Here’s one of my favorite songs.  Years ago I loved to play the fiddle part along with the wonderful fiddler on the cd.

Enjoy your day!

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it’s gone, gone, gone

The local wrecker arrived Wednesday afternoon to lift the tree from the roof. It was quite a process, as you can see. Lots of ropes and prayers!

Bill, the tree removal expert, is on the left taking pictures as the giant limb is lifted into the air.

Now that the tree was gone, the contractor and the insurance agent arrived the next morning to survey the damage. An electrician arrived to make sure it was safe to turn on the circuit that controlled our propane fireplace.

I might be repeating myself, but the crew arrived early Friday morning to replace rafters, secure the broken ridge and waterproof the roof. Saturday they returned to cover the hole in the entry hall and remove damp drywall above the living room windows.

We were thrilled to discover that the header wasn’t damaged!

Now we wait for an engineer and a building permit. It could take a while, but we’re safe and warm and waterproof.

And grateful that the worst is over.

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gone but not forgotten

The tree branch is gone from my ceiling!  The crane came today and lifted the giant branch off the roof of the house and everyone involved breathed a sigh of relief.

And for those of you who asked about the quilt, I am pleased to announce that it escaped without any damage at all, despite the branch putting a hole in the wall even with the quilt wrapped around it!

The crew has had a very busy afternoon.

And now on to Phase 2, which consists of meeting with the insurance adjuster and a contractor tomorrow morning.  I have no idea what’s ahead of us, but we are very relieved that all of that weight is no longer on the house.

We feel very lucky.

 

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flashing is the answer

Who knew that finding rubberized flashing tape would be such a project?

I’ll back up…

Yesterday morning I woke up and said good morning to the tree branch in my house.

I’d hoped it would magically disappear, but no such luck.  Unfortunately the local squirrels had discovered all the new pathways across our roof and one found its way into my attic.

He quickly found his way out again when Banjo Man crawled up there to bail out the tubs of water from the all-night-long rainstorm.   Daughter Nancy was here to do the ladder work for me, thank goodness.

About 9:30 my heroes drove up.  Bill, whose 93-year old father started the tree-cutting business, arrived with his helper, Bob.  Bob was much younger and had worked for us before as an electrician.  His father and younger brother spent days at our house during the remodel of 2019.

During that week I had sold my mother’s car to his brother, which had been the answer to the family transportation problems, and I was glad to hear the car was still running beautifully and had been as good a deal for the young man as we’d all hoped it was.

Anyway…the guys went up on the roof and started cutting, “whittling away”, they said.  Hours passed.  More hours passed.  The pile of branches and chunks of wood in the driveway grew bigger and bigger.  Banjo Man went out to survey the situation and told them to come inside and eat something.  I had plenty of leftovers–pork, sweet potatoes, chicken breasts baked with spinach and mozzarella, pumpkin cake, etc.

I was so happy to feed them.  Here they were, working on a Sunday, worried about our house, doing what they could to help.  I kept reheating food while we talked about Perryville characters we’d known and loved.  That was fun.  Bill the Tree Man said our house was the worst “tree on a house” situation he’d seen in forty years.  Both men offered names of contractors and then started calling people themselves.  I think someone is coming to look things over this afternoon, but I’m not sure (I was out of the loop during my odyssey to Home Depot and last night Banjo Man said he didn’t want to talk about anything tree related).

A crane will be needed to get the body of the branch off the house, so Bill made phone calls until dark.  No one is sure what is going to happen today.  In the meantime, Bill jacked up one section of the tree in hopes of taking some of the weight off the roof’s peak.  We are all concerned that the front of the house could collapse if we don’t get the weight off as soon as possible.

I try not to think about that.

And why did I need the tape?  Well, the tarps had had to come off due to the sawing, of course.  And we have at least six holes in the roof, so Banjo Man hired Bob to go back up on the roof and do something to prevent the squirrels and rain from getting in (I have forbidden my husband from going up on the roof again–enough is enough and there are younger men to pay to do the work and if we can’t find any then we just let the house get wet).  Bobby said he would get as much done as he could before dark, which resulted in my speeding to Westerly (20  minutes away) and needing four workers there to help my harried self find just the right stuff one hour before sunset.

So the saga continues today when hopefully the crane arrives and so do the insurance adjustor and the contractor who might take the job of installing and repairing new roof rafters or tell us who can.

I was up and dressed at six.  Just in case.

Photo by Jeff.

 

 

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the morning after the morning the branch fell

It’s still there.

We bailed water from the tubs in the attic until midnight because, just as we were heading to bed, noticed that water was dripping down the inside of the living room windows.

We’ll be bailing again–Banjo Man in the attic, me up and down the ladder–shortly.

But the good news?  We think the long night of rain is over.  We should have a few days to get a tarp on the roof while we await help.

Bill, the tree removal expert, said he’d get a crew together and head over after the rain stopped.  He is even trying to get a crane, but said that if he couldn’t then they would just “whittle away” at it.

I wonder how they will get the branch out of my ceiling?

Half of our living room is without electricity, as we had to turn off that circuit breaker when the entry light wouldn’t work.  Heaven knows what is going on in that ceiling, but we are certainly not going to take any chances.

Wish us luck today.

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the morning from hell

It started with a bang at 7:45 AM.   A very big bang.  The house shook.  I was here in my office at the computer.   Banjo Man was just getting out of bed.

“It’s the tree!” he yelled and we both rushed into the living room to look out the front windows at the huge tree that has shaded our home for thirty-one years.

Sure enough, the tree had split in half down the middle with a large part of it resting on our roof.  Weakened by last week’s winds, this morning’s gusts finished it off.

Banjo Man rushed off to get dressed and I turned around to grab my phone.  I have learned from experience that the first things to do were (a) take pictures and (b) call the insurance company.

This is what I saw:

Yes, a branch had come right through the ceiling.  My poor quilt was stabbed to the wall.

It’s like a horror movie, a friend said (Ruth had stopped by to pick up some supplies I’d found for her, things that couldn’t be found in her grocery store, but more about shortages in another post).

The forecast was for rain all day and all night, though it had yet to begin.

#buckets

We called Barb and Rod because they are our friends, they live down the street and they are always ready and willing to help out in any emergency.

Thank God.

Glen and Rod managed to tie tarps over the holes in the roof.  In the process of putting buckets in the attic, they discovered some major structural damage to rafters and beams.  There is a crack in our east wall.  The front door has moved.  The entry light no longer works, meaning we had to turn off the circuit breaker and lose half the power in the living room.

In other words, this is not going to be a quick fix.  In a time of worker and lumber shortages, this is going to take a while as we hope that the tarps keep the rain out.

Banjo Man called the longtime owner of a tree-cutting business who lives around the corner.  He is going to try to get a team together tomorrow to remove the tree from the roof.  He explained that he used to employ 18 people and now has trouble hiring more than two.

Ah, 2021…

Once the tree is removed, the tarps will have to be redone, something Banjo Man is not looking forward to doing.  But…one step at a time, right?

Barb and Rod were scheduled to come for dinner tonight, so while all the temporary roof protections were happening I put a couple of pork tenderloins in the crockpot and decided it would be “business as usual” later on, when the dust settled.

There isn’t anything else to be done, not until the claims adjustor contacts us Monday.  So we might as well enjoy dinner and spend a few hours catching up on each other’s summers.

Doesn’t that sound like more fun than staring at the tree in the ceiling?

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A close up of the branch slashing through the ceiling and pinning my quilt to the wall. What a mess!
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waking up in rhode island

It has taken over a week to get my energy back after a busy (and fabulous) summer, an over-long road trip, a heartwarming family reunion and nine days of Austin condo remodeling.

And then there’s my Purple Bed, which has been so comfortable each night that I can hardly get out of it in the morning.  I’ve been sleeping late and then staggering around wondering where I stored my wool socks.

This weekend I’ll start socializing again, seeing friends and saying “Hello, I’m back!” in person instead of texting and emailing.  Next week I plan to head back to water aerobics at the YMCA.

So, what else happened in Texas?  The highly anticipated annual tradition called “Early Birthday”, when Party Grandma shows up a week or two before October 29 and puts on a birthday party for the Funny Grandson.

You remember him, don’t you?

Yes,  he is a Dallas Cowboys fan.  Will and I bought a ton of decorations at Party City.  The FG had a flag football game Friday  night and caught the touchdown pass in a tie game.  In overtime.  Oh, the cheers of the crowd!

Friday Night Lights in Texas is no joke, people.

Will and I made about 177 trips to the flooring store and to the new tile showroom to pick out samples and/or return samples.  Okay, it wasn’t 177 but it felt like it.  Melissa and Katie at the showroom became our new best friends.  And we may have spent 177 hours discussing which tile to have installed in the condo to last until the world comes to an end.

No pressure.

The finalists:

Will said no to anything beige (which was fine with me).  The dark blue looked too much like gray (I don’t like gray).  I liked the terracotta red but Will said it was too flat.   We picked the soft, milky brown–or at least I did, as Will muttered something about being “over it” and wanted to get on with his life.

Shopping for a new couch was actually much easier than we had anticipated.  If you have been reading this blog for a long time you probably remember my mind-numbing experiences in furniture stores.

You can read about the last couch I bought here:

insomnia and sofas

Which meant our morning at Ashley’s was Will’s show all the way.

He picked this one.

I don’t like the pillows, but I will cover them.   Eventually.  It’s very, very comfy.

We risked our lives on three different highways to find a kitchen cabinet store that could match my existing cabinets.  Want to see what I’m up against?

Big changes are a-comin’.

The cabinet company never answered our calls or emails or sent out a designer as promised, so we are on to Plan B.  And I would certainly tell you all about it if I knew what Plan B was.

Will rented a storage unit.  We cleaned out part of the closet.  We went to the laundromat to find a big machine in which to wash his quilts.  We took a walk down South Congress to see all of the new, trendy stores and shared a $4.00 doughnut at a fancy little place called “The Salty”.

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I cooked a pot roast and taught Will how to make bacon-potato soup, which makes a great base for chilies and chicken and cheese (in other words, whatever you have in the fridge).

We were so busy we never went out to hear any live music.

And now, back home in  Rhode Island, I have been a slug.  Yesterday was a wild “Nor-easter” that knocked out power and downed trees all over the state.  Daughter Nancy is still without power, so I expect her to show up here for a shower and hot coffee before she goes to work this afternoon.

One of our big trees lost two branches, but they’re not in our way as they hang lifelessly to the ground.

We lucked out.

So today there is laundry, one last trip downstairs to finish unpacking the last suitcase, a few minutes on the treadmill and–fingers crossed–pumpkin muffins to bake.  I am determined to be energetic!

I just need another cup of coffee…..

 

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